To answer your question, a woman with very low-self esteem. Look, do you want a sugar coated advice or blunt one? I am a man, and that is not how a man is to act who is about to have a chid. I am not a saint, and don’t claim to be, but there are boundaries in every relationship. He could get a STD, and pass it on to you. He could fall in love with someone else and ditch you and most importantly, one should have some regard for the well-being of their child-to-be. This guy’s preference list is whack. I would think he should be more concerned about oncoming fatherhood than getting laid.
I guess you got to take a view, if this will make YOU happy? You sound like someone who is scared shitless about losing this guy that you are willing to bend over backwards and even sacrifice your dignity. Now, if you were to tell me that you are one of those “swingers” tree hugging couples who are cool with exploring new caves and poles:) then feel free to ignore my advice.
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But then I think what kind of woman even considers letting her man do that? But I want to keep him happy, and he would be coming home to me every night.
