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August 17, 2006 at 12:33 pm

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raverbabyliz

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Hiya, just wondering if there’s any other women out there who suffer from low sex-drive? I’ve heard its more common than you’d think but all my mates seem c*ck mad and now my bf is starting to think i dont fancy him anymore, but i literally just dont feel like sex at all (with anyone!). Once i get into it then i’m well away, (which means he has to do all the seducing work) but in general i just dont fancy it at all. Anyone got any tips?
August 17, 2006 at 4:07 pm

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quietRIOT

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how old are you…? an do you fancy the pants of your bloke….
August 17, 2006 at 4:51 pm

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Tank Girl

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I think as with everything there can be highs and lows,
stress, work,sleep, hormones, self esteem, family commitments, just having a baby etc can all impact on both female and male libidos

have you tried talking to your partner and explaining whats going on as a whole and maybe the both of you (if you want to ) can begin to look at what you can begin to introduce in to the bed room dept

(hold fire Agent!!!!! :groucho: tee hee)

to get things back on track for you
August 17, 2006 at 6:36 pm

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quietRIOT

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wise wordz…
August 17, 2006 at 7:53 pm

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globalloon

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i couple of years ago i read that a woman’s sex drive can be linked to how good her last sexual experience was, so if sex isn’t great one time,

and what tank girl said
August 17, 2006 at 9:30 pm

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Angel

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globalloon wrote:

i couple of years ago i read that a woman’s sex drive can be linked to how good her last sexual experience was

I believe that is true,but becauce it have been bad once,it dosnt mean it never will be good again..
I dont think sex feels the same every time,it dosent on me..Sometimes its good other times it is,not to be described in words(for me anyway)…and then now and again it just feels okay..Nothing wrong with that..
But if its only feels okay everytime,well then it is….sex sucks..
You dont write how old you are,but my experience with sex is,that it gets better with age..
I wasnt much in to sex when i was younger,it didnt interest me..But sometimes I said yes to keep the peace,but didnt really enjoy it..
Thought a lot about if it was me there were something wrong with? maybe i was gay,but i didnt really feel attracted to any of my girlfriends either,so i kicked that thought out of my head..I never found answer to what was wrong..maybe i didnt love him?dont know
But 19 years ago i meet a man,who rocked my world,big time..
He still does..but not much sex at the moment 🙁
I dont think there are anything wrong with you…

written a bit messy,sorry..
August 18, 2006 at 11:09 am

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raverbabyliz

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Hiya, thank you all for your advice. I’m 20 and have been with my partner for 3 and a half years. I think sex is very much in the mind, and i must have a hell of a lot going on in my mind to be putting me off – past experiences, insecurities etc…

I hope it does get better with time, and i’ve tried talking to him about it but being a bloke with a very high sex drive he just doesnt understand how i can not want sex cos it’s the norm to him.
August 18, 2006 at 5:50 pm

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raverbaby

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I heard that the pill can often have this effect on women to, maybe a trial period without it could change things? That is if you are taking it.
August 18, 2006 at 11:39 pm

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Angel

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raverbaby wrote:

I heard that the pill can often have this effect on women to, maybe a trial period without it could change things? That is if you are taking it.

That is actually,very true..

Cant believe it was a guy that mentioned that,very good point Raver..
August 19, 2006 at 12:24 am

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303loopy

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great to hear men understand about the effects of the contraceptive pill on a females erges, lots of factors can literaly fuck things up: life, booze, stress, social conditioning and most importantly us. The only good sex I have encountered has been when I really want it don’t know why???????
August 19, 2006 at 12:27 am

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Raj

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cos you are really relaxed about it?
August 19, 2006 at 12:38 am

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303loopy

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its the only way, if I have a prob sumert on my mind I can’t even think let alone fuck, have to be in the wright head space to express
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