Let me start off by saying that my fiancé is a great guy and is always there for me for support when I need it.. However lately he has developed this habit of telling me what to do and making my decisions for me, rather than help me out. For example he tells me to delete certain people he does not like on my facebook.
If there is a change in my job such as a position or schedule change, he will automatically tell me I don’t want you to do it. He tries to tell me what people I should be around and what friends I should have. Or if I have a friend over, it’s always “make sure your friends are gone by the time I get home.”
If we go out for a night or anywhere for that matter, he never wants me to talk to any other guy I know even if it’s just a good friend of mine. Unless he has a past with them, or knows them himself, he does not want me to speak to them. I love him but I feel like this is getting to be to much!!! I feel like I have to ask him for anything I want to do! I keep telling him I am old enough to decide whats best for me and he always claims back that he is just trying to protect me and do whats best for me.
But I feel like I have to live by his standards or he thinks I am to dumb to think for myself. Ugh I just need some advice on this if you all don’t mind. I am just getting very frustrated and don’t know what to do!
