This isn’t an instant gratification site bud, if that’s what you’re after, I think you should look at the drugs section 😉
Basically either post your own thread and wait for replies or go to threads that females have started asking for contacts, it’s still not an instant thing though but this is more an information site than a cyber brothel.
If you want friends bud then talk to people, start a thread about whatever or contribute to some other thread and people will happily chat. There is no instant chat feature.
There are some good decent people here that will help you any way they can, even if they didn’t respond to my introduction post for a month 🙁
