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      raverbaby wrote:
      Oh she probably has but the general consencus not so long ago when i was at school was that ADD was just a made up excuse for bad behaviour. and that people with ADD tend to never get diagnosed and are just seen as problem children with no desire to learn, but belive me this is not the case, as i rekon you will start to see your son will pick up a capacity to get really stuck into something he enjoys, and i found later on that physical hands on tasks i can pick up extremely quickly, where as try an teach me another language and i will struggle.

      I know his weak sides and strong sides..Numbers and figures have no interest what so ever..He is more a creative person,he actually can sit still for a very long time,if what his doing interests him..Its not how a normal school works,think the creative part is a very small part..He need to change school soon..But what i think is strange,maybe you can help me Raver,he seems so happy to be in school,like he dosent know he have a problem..Can you get used to be like that,and think that the world have to be like that??


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        rajsuspect wrote:
        :rant::rant::rant::rant:hey thats not just kids; if you try and get taken seriously when you say an adult has ADD they say the same and that they just need to pull themselves together:rant::rant::rant::rant:

        :you_smartas if they havent tried; it just sets them up to fail in a system which doesnt help them and leaves them feeling shite about themselves:rant::rant::rant::rant:

        :rant::rant::rant::rant::rant::rant:

        😥 Its one of these things that never ends isent it..He will have problems for the rest of his life!!!!

        /me cryes!

        ange1 wrote:
        😥 😥 Its one of these things that never ends isent it..He will have problems for the rest of his life!!!!

        * ange1 cryes!

        over half of people with this problem grow out of it and/or learn to cope without needing medication as adults:bigsmile::bigsmile::bigsmile:

        unfortunately my friend is 30 now and is still struggling because it was not picked up while they were at school though all the signs were there and trying to get diagnosed as an adult is very much harder because the consensus is that you grow out of it always:you_smart


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          rajsuspect wrote:
          over half of people with this problem grow out of it and/or learn to cope without needing medication as adults:bigsmile::bigsmile:

          Dont think he will be able to go without medications,he is rapidly getting worse..Think it maybe can be connected to me being ill.He have been neglected at the time i was in hospital,to much fuss around him..No stability,scared all the things a child with ADHD dont need..

          ange1 wrote:
          Dont think he will be able to go without medications,he is rapidly getting worse..Think it maybe can be connected to me being ill.He have been neglected at the time i was in hospital,to much fuss around him..No stability,scared all the things a child with ADHD dont need..

          you feeling guilty about it is not going to change that now; do your best – thats all anyone can do

          :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

          [and explain to him what happened and make sure he knows its not his fault; that might help]


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            rajsuspect wrote:
            you feeling guilty about it is not going to change that now; do your best – thats all anyone can do

            :group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

            [and explain to him what happened and make sure he knows its not his fault; that might help]

            Have tried but it dont seems as if he thinks about it,dont think so anyway..He never talk about it..Its like he have forgot about it,wich is good.He dont need to think about that

            Have you considered montusaury method of teaching, this may be alot more suitable for your child as its encapsulates the learning process that your child may be best suited to but without any harsh rules etc. may help him you never know! Just not sure if this method is used in denmark.


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              Have never heard of it..But i will look it up:bigsmile:

              may be worth checking but im not sure if thats how you spell it!

              raverbaby wrote:
              may be worth checking but im not sure if thats how you spell it!

              it is spelt montesorri :crazy_fre:crazy_fre and well done for that raverbaby; it completely escaped me. it is an international method so it should exist in denmark

              :alien_abd

              Dont mention it!

              :flowers:

              raverbaby wrote:
              Dont mention it!

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                :bigsmile: Thanks to the both of you..:flowers: You helped me a lot:bigsmile:

                ange1 wrote:
                :bigsmile: Thanks to the both of you..:flowers: You helped me a lot:bigsmile:

                we are here for you :group_hug


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                  rajsuspect wrote:
                  we are here for you :group_hug

                  :bigsmile: That is one of these things i like about partyvibe..If you have a problem,people are there for you,dont think you have that help many other places on the internet.:bigsmile: There is a lot of fun here,but people are also serious if sombody need that..
                  Thanks a lot to you,i didnt know where else to turn..

                  /me love you all!:bigsmile:

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