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double check the ID (young people can go up to college at age 16/17 in most countries). I once ended with the ID card of a 17 year old Catholic schoolgirl as she had droped it in my street (I returned it to the school; interestingly I was able to cycle right into the campus without causing a security alert even though the kids also saw me; so I didn’t look like a “dangerous stranger” (I am still supposedly a Catholic though not attending mass).

The card they give at the school/college is not as robust as something like state ID or drivers license.

that the relationship may be inspired by drug use could be classed as a “safeguarding” issue in some states where she could be known as vulnerable young adult which is not what you want to be involved in. And check up on her dad as well; just in case he isn’t too happy about his daughter having what may only turn out to be a short fling with someone who is going in the big house; to make sure he isn’t waiting for you on the porch with his favorite .45 revolver when you get out… (the good news is the sentences are now the same as in Europe; and you might have a good chance of parole). BTW I did not think you were 35 from the pics you put up (and I think they were your prison pics!) so drugs haven’t done you too much harm.

BTW when you do your time see if you can go to “college” as well; it seems that some US prisons régimes have better education than even the UK!

BTW are we allowed to send you letters / CDs when you are in the can? i read that CD’s might be verboten as they can be made into weapons but that might be in Europe.

@p0lski 591410 wrote:

Sadly I have a feeling this is just an ego thread, and no advice will be heeded. Sadly I find it hard to say no to a beautiful girl, as I’ve found out recently…. Wait, that’s bullshit, I’ve known that forever. However I do have morals and I’m 25 in the next 2 weeks, I feel a 9 year age gap even though legal is not right unless it’s going the opposite way, me and a 34 year old.

TBH unless its a really dodgy relationship done for money or power once you are a proper young adult (25-60) or at middle age (60-80) age differences are less of a problem, although if you intend to have children being around the same age makes obvious sense.

I was offered the eldest daughter of a Malaysian Chinese restaurant family in my 30s (the whole thing had been carefully set up to look like it was still “Western style flirting/dating” but I knew the old guy was her Dad and she was in her 30s; and the intention was for us to produce at least one child before she gets menopause to keep the family going (and her student visa runs out); but you then have get and stay married and attend Mass every Sunday as the minister can sign your immigration statements for both UK and Malaysia (once you’re a stable family unit both countries are basically competing for your babies as there is a baby shortage worldwide of educated Asian families). I turned this down as TBH I doubt I’d make my 50s with all the stress (as I’d have to emigrate again with the wife and kids to another EU nation with better education and less pressure on kids) and also spend enough time between EU and MY to comply with visa conditions.

At (80-100+) its still OK provided both partners are mentally capable of consent (its not uncommon for couplles in that age group to meet up at friends funerals and at care centres).