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@Cherylc3 401166 wrote:

We have sorted things out and its all good turns out he is so stressed at work the now its so quiet and he’s not making much money so he has been very stressed with that. And he wasn’t wanting to worry me by telling me. so i told him just to be honest that i can help him if he talks to me, but voodoomonkey don’t get married if u don’t want to and if your not happy don’t go out with ur girlfriend its pointless wasting time with someone u don’t want to commit to…x

u get me wrong, i AM committed to her i just dont believe in marriage, the whole idea of commitment being down to a ceremony and swapping 2 rings for a peace of paper is pointless.

I have a daughter with my gf, which is a bigger commitment to her than any marriage can provide, no bond is stronger. The bond i have with her through my daughter is stronger than any marriage, it lasts for ever……a marriage can fall apart in hours, even minutes.

@p0ly 401307 wrote:

9 out of 10 marriages fail

I wonder how many parents fail (by fail i mean not be there or help)

quite a few according to old jezza haha but really theres a few but its not 9 out of 10

@p0ly 401366 wrote:

Yeah damn Jezza!!! but that programme is just England’s scumbags being thrown together, maybe it’s like a concentration camp. they go on the show then they get sent off to camps after… maybe!?

whatever idiots go on there are complete wankers…..to themselves and their families, i cant believe they think its a good thing to goon tv and tell the whole country about your personal problems

Cherylc3 ,
Glad its all sorted out my girl , now hows that smile 🙂 .

regards
mungo

@Tank Girl 397684 wrote:

she spoke to his ex -wife in desperation to ind out if she knew what was going on – as he wouldnt talk at all or explain what was going on in his head – (him and his ex have 2 girls, married at 18 etc) and he had done exactly the same to her….. and other such stories rom other friends…

yeah the first person i believe as a character reference is someone’s ex-wife :crazy_dru

if it’s all going wrong then it’s because the pair of you need to sort out your communication

if you can’t do that between you then go to relate or a family mediation service

no-one is at fault but you are both getting it wrong

i think marriage is a nice idea but not necessary, but everyone wants a big pretty wedding 🙂 and i like the idea of exchanging rings and such.

ooo yeah ^^ honeymooon. or the idea of eloping would be more romantic i think. at night, in secret. i just want an excuse to buy a really expensive dress one day.