Party Vibe

I’ve been single for two years now. Suited me as I was clearing debts down and women are expensive to run, but now that’s sorted I’m on the lookout.

I’d love to be in a relationship but I really cannot be bollocksed with the whole date scene and the bullshit games that come with it.

Confidence isn’t normally an issue, its finding someone that stimulates me mentally and physically that’s the problem.

I mean, my ex was a hairdresser…

@Keyser Söze 442666 wrote:

i just can’t seem to say much or anything without making a idiot of myself. I really can’t do the bassass thing without making an idiot of myself then becoming a laughing stock. Does wonders of self confidence

firstly… awwwwww :group_hug … is that a boob tube you’ve got under there?…

secondly… i don’t have a steady flow of ladies like p0ly, so thats not where im coming from

so umm…. maybe you don’t need to do anything… just turn up… allow the situation to unfold in its natural way. be a vessel of the moment rather than trying to control and direct it. its probably much easier to be tuned in to yer new lady friend if yer not havin to steer the fekkin love boat aswell…… also it shows some indifference. so if it becomes silent, feel the silence… how is she feeling it?… is she comfortable?… is she interested?… are you noticing maybe she’s twitching a bit?… maybe she is a little shy and nervous also……………………………………………………. ahhh and suddenly now there is something to say again, the conversation picks up naturally and you talk and now she’s engaged with what you’re saying a bit more… she talks… maybe she st-t-tutters a bit, you pretend to not notice and look away a bit, show her that you’re still aware of the world around you and not completely hypnotised by her tits… and if you do glance and she catches you… maybe its not a bad thing… you’ve set your stall out now and you can just gently smile… she knows why your here, its why you’re both here…

the only difficulty is… as is with me now also……….. where is here?

@p0ly 474557 wrote:

i’m not a big man player but my female friend is trying to sleep on my leg as i type this 😛 she’s 4 years older too

i skim read that completely wrong… lol

nice tune 😀 x

@p0ly 475129 wrote:

erm darlin, would you like me to slip it in… softly does it my angel

:yakk::yakk::yakk::yakk:

(however some nice, kind and caring men can also be fucking dirty dominant awesomeness in bed! I think it – with a lot of things – comes down to confidence, you dont have to be a complete prick to be confident in yourself and your abilities – and this I personally find more attractive :love:)