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Pick up the phone, say you were doing something and had it on silent, see what the fuck she wants. Reading too much into it

I’ve been single for over 10 years and got waaaaay too used to it, I am telling what you should do not what I would do, I sympathize on the confidence thing, I used to be able to DJ in front of loads of people but talk to a bird ? I had to be proper mashed or pissed. Maybe just try calling her and be honest, just tell her you’re not too good at this. At worst she’ll say no, moment passed, but she’d probably understand and appreciate the honesty. It’s not like she’s going to laugh at you seeing as you just spent all that time with her.

you coped fine in person at the pub, just fling her a text saying your phone was on silent and whats up.

I hate making phone calls and I’m pretty confident as it goes, just send a text if you cant call.

Relationships are such nightmares, I wish I was single right now… Why do they seem like such perfect ideas at the start? The second you both depend on each other the cracks start showing.

Good luck with your quest, confidence is in my experience is important for hooking up with people. If you’re shitting it to contact her, just call her ASAP because over thinking equals, delusional projections and builds up fear. Facing the fear is normally a totally different outcome than you’d expect. So I’d advise just push through the worry. Worry and stress are not healthy! They’re a proper bastard.

Mate, life’s too short as it is, grab it by the balls. Give the girl a call and ask her out for a drink/some food/to watch a movie. What’s the worst that can happen? She can say no and then you just move on. You never know until you try.

Go for the honest option I say. Women like confidence but they usually appreciate honesty more. Admit why you didn’t answer (it might flatter her) and tell her how you feel. If it blows back in your face, yes it’ll suck, but least then you can move on. Bottling up the emotions for longer and finding out at a later date that maybe she doesn’t feel the same will hurt more, as your feelings will likely have grown stronger. And if it works out, well done, get in son.