Party Vibe

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Well if u need to supervise yur child at all times, then how the hell r u suposed to party?!?! And wot wud b the point in taking yur kid to a party so u can baby sit em whil evry1 else is havin a phat nite?!
If you dont hav to wait on yur child hand and foot then they shud b okay at a party shudnt they?

your kiddin right ?>????????:weee: :you_crazy :crazy_dru

My mum took me to parties from the age of 6 until i was 13. now i go with friends….well actualy she did go when she was pregnant with me…

i used to sleep in the car all night and i loved it in the morning. I used to get so much attention from all these friendly ravers. I got given free sweets and drinks and food and i got to play in the forrests or where ever we were.

i thik taking kids to a party is a great idea. it did me more good than harm.

….but is it? Are there really any more weirdo’s and paedo’s out there than in the past? And are they really likely to be found hanging out at raves in the middle of no where lurking round looking for kiddies to abuse who’ve been left alone in cars?

Thing is most child abuse comes from within the family or people the child knows in a position of trust (like priests).

Personally I’d be more worried leaving my kid alone with the local vicar lol

Sorry, poor taste and stretching the point, but I do really think the belief there are more weirdo’s around now than ever before is a media creation and makes us wrap kids up in cotton wool a bit too much imo.

Not saying I’d necessarily take my kids (if I had any) to parties – doubt our lass would let me for a start lol – but the right party I personally dont see that big a problem and I know plenty of people who do, or did as kids and the experience seems to be positive on the whole.

sorry rewind ..you think* they wouldnt be around in that kind of envirement that its all indoors behind the curtains that this happens ..yeah some of it is …but we arent on about that ………………..
i think they would certainly could be at some of these places where they know kids are…

At festivals they have resignated areas for children wHere they are safe from harm not just from being abducted,,,,the people who run these workshops ,creches are police checked …why is that you think ..?

The sad thing is that they dont always catch everyone even when they do police checks,

I can see why people stand on both sides of the arguement, I think its down to the parents at the end of the day. People are always going to have different beliefs in how you should bring your children up.

I personally think that if you are going to ensure you child is safe and not put at any risk then go for it, if you cannot be certain that you will be able to say sober and look after them, if you cant you should find someone who can take your little ones in for the weekend.

What i would be mostly concerned with is some muntered person doing something stupid as they thought it was funny.

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In the end its your choice, do what you feel is right at the time. you may change your mind about it next time…..

people have CRB checks at proper festies to look after kids, cause you won’t get insured otherwise. as simple as that.

also, CRB checks have become a standard. this doesn’t get rid of pedos though.

erm disagree thats exactly what it is enforced for ….nothing to do with insurance some people sincerely care about the children!
simple AS…………..
Call me a hypercrit i dunno care …i dont want my kids to smoke pot .take drugs ok …that dont make me no idiot..ive done it been there …i just want them to be healthy an use exercise an outdoor stuff to feel a rush from …..raaa nite nite …x