Me and my boyfriend have tried swinging couple of times…
At some point when our sex life was almost non-existing (we’ve been together for 11years now), my boyfriend came up with the idea and suggested it to me. First, I was little (read very) sceptical about it, but then I decided to give it a chance…
First time we went to those parties, we agreed to do just soft swap to get familiar with the scene… but already at the second time we were down for the “hard stuff”. I have to admit that the first time we swapped partners, it felt really weird…being fucked by another dude and knowing that my boyfriend is doing it with another woman. Didn’t feel quite right, but simultaneously it really exciting and naughty. Swapping partners is not for everyone and I strongly suggest you talk things through with your partner before trying it. To us it has been a good experience and probably saved our relationship. I feel I can now trust my boyfriend better and that these experiments have made our relationship stronger. I don’t have to be affraid that he’d cheat on me and vice versa I can also enjoy sex with others. Also, swingging is something that you don’t talk about at coffee breaks with your collagues at work (or even with your closest friends). It’s our little secret 😉
