Party Vibe

You can try out each of the themes below:

Vilan:
http://preview.themeforest.net/item/vilan-corporate-shop-forum-wordpress-theme/full_screen_preview/9322383

One Community:
https://preview.themeforest.net/item/onecommunity-buddypress-theme/full_screen_preview/3713046

Cinematic:
https://preview.themeforest.net/item/cinematix-buddypress-theme/full_screen_preview/4959387

Personally I’m draw to Cinematic because it looks good but has a bunch of extra community features we could use.

Let me know