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  • Have you? I dont think i can do it.

    I have had my aunt and cousin sitting in my ‘friends requests’ for about 2 months now and i REALLY think i don’t want to add them. Mainly because I want my own life, half the reason for moving out of home and and away was because of all that. They do not need to knwo what goes on in my life..’what you don’t know can’t hurt you’ etc and if they see some of those pics…it wouldnt be too jolly at the next family do i can tell you.

    I feel dead harsh though because they are my close, close family, but i feel im justified in my actions 🙂

    Does anyone have any bad stories of adding family to their interactive community?:laugh_at:

    my dad is my ‘friend’ and ‘friends’ with a few of my mates on myspace and facebook,

    but he’s pretty chilled out these days
    if this was around when I was growing up though – it’d be no way!! he was a right prick then 😉

    haha, oh I feel like that. My mother recently figured out how to use facebook and searched me and sent me a friend request … i feel harsh if I deny it, but if i accept, i know she’ll just lecture me next time i go round to hers.

    when i moved out, i was glad to have the freedom of her not knowing every thing i do, every time i go out, where i go, what time icome home, if i’ve been drinking/taking drugs… having her on my facebook would just take away that 😛

    on myspace, i have my twin and my cousin.. that’s it. i know that if my brother or my mother added me as a friend (yes, she has myspace too haha!) they’d end up reading my comments. On facebook, i don’t mind.. I don’t have many friends 🙁 (only just figured out how to use it :P) but i used to use myspace fore verything. they’d learn the real reason i got fired from my old job…and basically the live i’ve tried so hard to keep from her 😛 … not because i don’t want her in my life… because i know she’d tell mei was “heading down the wrong lane. i’m making the wrong decisions. i need to sort my life out or else i’ll get nowhere” etc.. however i know I’m NOT making the wrong decisions and I AM getting somewhere.. saves her the trouble of worrying.. and annoying me about it 😛

    i tend to keep my family away from that haha. sure, they can text/ring/come round to my flat whenever they want.. just.. myspace/facebook, no 😛 .. i have most of my siblings on MSN and my auntie and cousins but that’s not that bad really..

    Go into your account/privacy settings – you can specify who can see certain bits of your profile! Then u can be friends and they won’t wonder what you must be hiding as you haven’t accepted them 😉

    Nah I have my little sis on Facebook but shes sound so thats not a worry, my old fella has a facebook account and there is no way I will ever add him… There are some pictures that family don’t need to see (some have ended up on here) :laugh_at:

    starlaugh;231382 wrote:
    Nah I have my little sis on Facebook but shes sound so thats not a worry, my old fella has a facebook account and there is no way I will ever add him… There are some pictures that family don’t need to see (some have ended up on here) :laugh_at:

    ah you meen your weekend wear? :laugh_at:

    DaftFader;231393 wrote:
    ah you meen your weekend wear? :laugh_at:

    Ah they have seen some of them mate, I was out on the piss with my olds sporting that hot-pants & Boob-tube combo :laugh_at:

    my young sister uses facebook loads and so do my relatives both here and in Malaysia, ironically although its may be expected that I don’t trust it for privacy reasons, my mum doesn’t either! (she used it for a bit and stopped)

    That said my family know exactly what I used to get up to (i have calmed things down to the extent where they no longer need to worry so much).

    I’m more concerned about such issues as work colleagues/potential clients finding out “too much” about me – not because there is anything that incriminating around any more (not been deeply involved with illegal raves for 2.5 years now) but it causes friction when people realise that someone who was once a “feckless druggie” is now in a senior management position of a well respected local business (despite the fact its clearly better for society than if I was out dealing and robbing instead..)

    I have my lil bro and sister on facebook and myspace. I think my family know what i get upto i have only properly known my dad for the past year so i don’t need to justify myself to anyone and if he asked me i would be honest with him.

    i had all my family off fb for a year or two on my newer account but my sisters literally said to me, please accept me because they love me that much and i couldn’t deny their love…

    i ended up accepting my mum to try n get on with her more but i haven’t accepted my dad as i don’t want him or his gf in my business and she’ll blatantly try n add me if i accept him. she can go to fuck i hate her and so do my entire family.

    I’ve got my dad and brother on facebook, my dad doesn’t even use it and my brother doesn’t give a shit.

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