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June 11, 2007 at 7:27 pm

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June 11, 2007 at 9:09 pm

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Space Master wrote:

I hope you don’t plant loads of cannabis seeds in your neighbour’s garden (cannabis ruderalis would be a good choice) and then call in the feds 4 weeks later, that would be really cheeky. :groucho:

Good idea, think his two kids would love that though 😉
June 12, 2007 at 6:37 am

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starlaugh wrote:

I had that “is your life that crap you need to escape” No it aint i quite like my life!

They even told me they knew ages ago, still i tried to hide it.

Well in my old mans eyes anyone who touches drugs will never get anywhere in their lifes, he must not know about some of his mates then.

Sorry to hear SL, it sucks bein betrayed and bein given ultimatums (my dad found a bong foil when i was 17, convinced himself I was a smack head, I left, moved into a squat and really went to town!)

It doesn’t sound like they know much about drugs, or the lifestyle. Seems they’ve just heard about the risky bits, shame but quite common.

I’m not condoning the ‘give up or move out’ thing but am wondering one thing – is it ‘you’re a loser get out’ or is it that they are worried for you and are trying to get you to give up something they see as dangerous.

Just a thought, and try not to worry too much it will all work out :love:
June 12, 2007 at 8:59 am

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tarifa wrote:

I’m not condoning the ‘give up or move out’ thing but am wondering one thing – is it ‘you’re a loser get out’ or is it that they are worried for you and are trying to get you to give up something they see as dangerous.

Just a thought, and try not to worry too much it will all work out :love:

Well chatting to my old man last night he said its the fact that he doesnt like me when after i have been on them, apparently i become secrative and paranoid.

From the chat i worked out that it is when i have done a few beans that this happens.

He confessed to know i have been on them for the past few months, kinda the time i started on them again after a short break. He is concerned that i am going to be heading down the wrong path with them as on Sunday after a night at a free party I was exhausted and fell asleep in a heap in my room. everything on and no one could wake me.

I think this has scared him, even though i was just fookin exhausted 😉

Well having had a night to think about the situation i know what needs to be done and that is take a break from the stuff and see how i feel. I have a plan and it should be fine raaa

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June 12, 2007 at 9:05 am

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starlaugh wrote:

I was exhausted and fell asleep in a heap in my room. everything on and no one could wake me.
I think this has scared him
Well having had a night to think about the situation i know what needs to be done and that is take a break from the stuff and see how i feel.

As a parent myself..That would scare the hell out of me too..

And everybody can use a break sometimes 😉

I’m very glad you and your father had a talk..It can be very hard sometimes
Well done to both of you :group_hug:group_hug
June 12, 2007 at 10:38 am

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a similar situation happened to me in my late teens/20s…

it is mostly your parents worrying more than anything.

These days even parents and other family members often don’t believe all the scare stories that you might drop dead, but they will be worried about your health, plus they are aware of the people of my generation who have become hopeless addicts and caused their families and society a lot of trouble..

usually what has happened is that the rest of your family have noticed the mood swings when you have comedowns, often you don’t realise this or perceive its impact on others..

at this point taking a break is a good idea.. but its also better for you in the long run to stay on good terms with your family until you can afford to move out properly

A lot of people move out at a young age through stubbornness, then get themselves into worse situations such as weekday drug use, debts, trouble with the law, disputes / fights with housemates over money etc..
June 12, 2007 at 10:40 am

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starlaugh wrote:

Well chatting to my old man last night he said its the fact that he doesnt like me when after i have been on them, apparently i become secrative and paranoid.

on Sunday after a night at a free party I was exhausted and fell asleep in a heap in my room. everything on and no one could wake me.

I think this has scared him, even though i was just fookin exhausted 😉

:group_hug

Sounds fair enough, come downs turn us all a bit fragmented and being defensive (secretive and paranoid) is perfectly normal behaviour when we feel we’re in ‘trouble’ or know people disapprove so . . . I’d guess he’s quite accurate.

I’ve never been around my parents on a come down and wouldn’t want to be! :omg:

As for the not waking up thing that would really shit me up an i dont blame em for bein scared.

Good on you both for talking, comunication can sort most things in this life, good luck with your plan :love::group_hug
June 12, 2007 at 10:57 am

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General Lighting wrote:

at this point taking a break is a good idea.. but its also better for you in the long run to stay on good terms with your family until you can afford to move out properly

A lot of people move out at a young age through stubbornness, then get themselves into worse situations such as weekday drug use, debts, trouble with the law, disputes / fights with housemates over money and etc..

Since i started using i have always taken a few months off a year to get a clear head and look at my life and make sure i am not doing damage, usually at a point when i feel too comfortable doing the drugs.

No matter how much fun drugs can be, there is no decision to make when it becomes a choice of family or drugs. Family have been there for years and will always look out for me, drugs are justa bit of fun to do. I have done the falling out with all my family and not talking to them before and it didn’t bother me for about a year, then one day i was alone and walking about picking shrooms and it just clicked. I was being a selfish twat, putting my fun before the feelings of my family.

I think the situation would be different now if i hadn’t have hammered the drugs too heavy when i was 15/16 as i managed to get myself into a right mess (i think he looks back to this).

Tried the sitting down and explaining about what i take the risks the good points and the fact i like to know the in’s and out’s of what i am doing. But its nigh on impossible to explain you are a sensible user 😉
June 12, 2007 at 6:03 pm

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Digital-A

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starlaugh wrote:

Don’t you think its nice when people you think you can trust drop you in it?

Just got in from work and now been given the option of either quitting drugs or move out.

I only know who two of them are and that is my sisters boyfriend and the bloke next door, sisters boyfriend is a fucking hypocrite as i know he smokes weed when its about.

The bloke next doors a fucking twat as he saw me sat in the garden smoking a roll up, apparently i was wobbling about and something smelt odd. It was a rollup you tosser.

Well i aint going to risk getting kicked out so i think it is time to say good bye too drugs for now 😥

unlucky mate,

a poo on his bonnet would go down well …

smell that you wanker wheeeyyy!!

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