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you could find some sport/exercise that you can do together? or, its getting warmer now, just go walking somewhere… look up some walks near where u live, or if ur in town, go on a mission somewhere

@Spazhazzard 541397 wrote:

She’s just not go the motivation to start. I love her to bits but it really is starting to get to me. I’ve suggested doing things together, offered to pay half a gym membership (I can’t afford to pay two full ones right now), encouraged her to go to a pay as you use gym with a friend of hers that goes but nothing has worked.

Explain your feelings to her and tell her you just want her to be healthy, explain how it will make her feel powerful and incredible, and try and literally kick her out the house with you. Put some shoes and some gear in front of her and just say “let’s go, we’re going for a run”

The motivation WILL come, she just has to get into it, unless she is generally lazy… Then its harder… Also, try and sell the idea of exercising to her, not all at once but gradually, like condition it to her

Ooft thats a tricky one..
When you’re walking down the street together you should ogle the slim women and make sure she catches you out :laugh_at:

No but on a serious note, try and get to the bottom of her lack of motivation because it sounds a bit depression, however it is you would deal with talking to her about any problems in your own way, there’ll be a reason for it… From what you’ve said here it sounds like she doesn’t enjoy much things at all really… So i guess until you can get her to talk about what’s bothering her emotionally… you know, tell her (in your own words) that you’ve noticed a lack of lust for life within her and are worried about her etc..

Motivation (for any possible activity) has two basic approaches – fear or fun.

You can either use the fear approach, making it appear that the current path is clearly harmful and they MUST change or they WILL be harmed.

The other approach is to to offer support in the person pursuing the activity, making it more fun than they are currently having.

Your choice. You could choose a different method, BNC – Bribery N Corruption – but I don’t know how clued up either of you is.

@DaftFader 541428 wrote:

Shag 5 times a day, it’s actually a pretty good workout. 😉

Trying to be the new Poly?

@Savvydravvy 541430 wrote:

Trying to be the new Poly?

He’s almost there. He’s only missing the part about how many peng girls he can get to groom his hair and his love for BRUV, BRUVA, MANG