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Mr Tank not into dancing the night away in fields
IMO it’s good to have some separate interests as it gives you space to do different things. Free Parties seem to have a bad rep though, so people look down on you a bit. I possibly subconsiously ended up with my partner precisely because she is not into it. I made it clear at the start what I was into and I would be dissapearing for a few weekends a year. I personally find it easier to cope with a party situation with good mates rather than someone I live with especially if they have a bad drug experience, or they get jealous (why are you lookin at her) and all that shit.
This way I go off do my thing, come back on best behaviour and its a win/win situation. We go and do common interest things together, and I give her the space to do other things she likes, without having to drag me along. As long as we trust each other it enhances the relationship. Part of the problem for me is that festivals are associated with drug use so it’s an easy target when she gets stroppy.
