ORAL – HELP!
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Oral…What to do?
Ok im a 17 year old female and have been with my 21 year old boyfriend for 5 months now. We have had sex since about 2 months into the relationship and we love each other so much. I just wanted to know how to please him because he does so much for me.
We started of having sex in the missionary position and moved on to cowgirl and other easy positions. Before sex he will finger me and kiss me as i get him hard but I cant bring myself to give him a blow job. I don’t know what it is but I just can’t, can anyone help me?
I need advice and tips because it will be my first time giving anyone a blow job and my boyfriend is really experienced and I feel as though I wont be as good as his past girlfriends.
Thanks 🙂
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Well to make it nice for you so you can like it too…
I suggest having a sexy lather up in the shower so he is all nice and clean with no sweaty or pee smell etc. Your mouth will prob get a bit sore from being open down there so much to start with so don’t think you have to stay dowen there all the time (guys might disagree with me on that)…. but you can start of with some long deep sucking and some slow swirling tongue stuff, don’t forget to lick around the tip as it is really sensitive there. When your jaw and mouth get a bit tired from being open then stop and do some other fun stuff, sex or stuff to you and then go back to it when you are ready. Be also away that as guys get excited sometimes they can thrust hard into your mouth and sometimes that can choke ya a little.
Dont be afraid to settle the tiger down, as you dont want to gag 🙂
You need to decide though before the final event whether you are going to “spit, swallow or dodge” 🙂
I once got it in the eye for miscommunication. and that is just not nice haha.
If I am honest the only time I have swallowed is when I have been really drunk or high and was just caught me by surprise. Some chicks love it, some dont.
Some guys love to then come all over your neck and breasts instead of you swallowing, so don’t feel you need to do it one particular way.
Good luck!
And do not compare yourself to previous girlfriends cos it wont matter or even cross his mind when you are doing the deed!
@kiwifruit 433726 wrote:
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Well to make it nice for you so you can like it too… I suggest having a sexy lather up in the shower so he is all nice and clean with no sweaty or pee smell etc. Your mouth will prob get a bit sore from being open down there so much to start with so don’t think you have to stay dowen there all the time (guys might disagree with me on that)…. but you can start of with some long deep sucking and some slow swirling tongue stuff, don’t forget to lick around the tip as it is really sensitive there. When your jaw and mouth get a bit tired from being open then stop and do some other fun stuff, sex or stuff to you and then go back to it when you are ready. Be also away that as guys get excited sometimes they can thrust hard into your mouth and sometimes that can choke ya a little. Dont be afraid to settle the tiger down, as you dont want to gag 🙂
You need to decide though before the final event whether you are going to “spit, swallow or dodge” 🙂
I once got it in the eye for miscommunication. and that is just not nice haha.If I am honest the only time I have swallowed is when I have been really drunk or high and was just caught me by surprise. Some chicks love it, some dont.
Some guys love to then come all over your neck and breasts instead of you swallowing, so don’t feel you need to do it one particular way.Good luck! And do not compare yourself to previous girlfriends cos it wont matter or even cross his mind when you are doing the deed!
very good advice, :love:
some girls love doing it – some not so,
Have you spoken to him about your anxieties and inexperience? Coz if he’s a nice guy he’ll understand and take it at your pace, coz jaws do ache and need to build up muscles so you may wanna try a little at a time to also build your confidence too!
And always much nicer when nice and clean – make that a rule from the start :group_hugThanks to all the posts above, its been really helpful.
He is a really nice guy 🙂 When he asks me if I want to give it a try and I say no, he says no problem and carries on kissing me and stuff. Im glad that he doesnt push me into it and allows me to say no.
Also I will read the link above 🙂
Thank you all so much,
Holly x
Thanks for the information. I really enjoyed reading it. It’s always fun to find useful information…
does anyone told you lately that your not alone in this?
@abitdeals 446036 wrote:
does anyone told you lately that your not alone in this?
no you’re not alone … call me … 555 7731 😉
Tbh, you’d be suprised probably – I know from personal exp a girl can be amazing at blowjobs – but quite frankly I hate it when my gf goes at it for too long and too much, don’t feel like you have to suck that hard, if your jaw is aching just take a break for a bit and just use your hand instead. Try using your hand to create pressure and using your mouth to actually create the sensation. If you try to suck too hard, it can create too much sensation and it gets to the point where it’s almost painful.
Also, don’t feel like you have to make him doing it, a lot of girls can’t do that anyway. I’ve slept with like 7/8 girls and only 1 has ever made me finish from a blowjob.
@R4nd0mn355 455085 wrote:
I’ve slept with like 7/8 girls and only 1 has ever made me finish from a blowjob.
clearly you have never been to Singapore
No I haven’t, but the reason I’d struggle to finish is because it was too much sensation, and that’s all I was trying to say with that really.
I wrote an article on this subject, and I posted a video from youtube that I think relevant:
@Clusterfrog 458692 wrote:
put his cock in your mouth and blow it like a trumpet
just dont bite it….
I love oral…
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