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  • Best method … talk to him! … alltho you must make sure you aproach him when you are both getting on well (if you never get on then pick a moment when you’re not arguing and he doesn’t look like he’s pissed of) .. and make sure you use tact .. ie. don’t go in guns blazing .. just level with him.

    explain what’s bothering you .. eg. “we are brother and sister and i would like to get on better with you” … ect. try not to point out the negatives too much … mby start by saing something that you enjoy about spending time with him then mby highlight an issue and don’t leave it at that give a solution as well – but not a demand and don’t blame him (even if it’s his fault as he’ll probably get pissed off – just offer a way you can both work together to make things better.

    eg. … “It’s really nice when we have them heart to heart chats/get along … but when you get pissed off at me i don’t like it .. i would prefer to get along … and i am only trying to help out … mby if i’m doing something that anoys you, you could just let me know and i’ll stop doing it.?”

    hope it goes well πŸ™‚

    Is that a link to your brothers company?

    @DaftFader 390703 wrote:

    Best method … talk to him! … alltho you must make sure you aproach him when you are both getting on well (if you never get on then pick a moment when you’re not arguing and he doesn’t look like he’s pissed of) .. and make sure you use tact .. ie. don’t go in guns blazing .. just level with him.

    explain what’s bothering you .. eg. “we are brother and sister and i would like to get on better with you” … ect. try not to point out the negatives too much … mby start by saing something that you enjoy about spending time with him then mby highlight an issue and don’t leave it at that give a solution as well – but not a demand and don’t blame him (even if it’s his fault as he’ll probably get pissed off – just offer a way you can both work together to make things better.

    eg. … “It’s really nice when we have them heart to heart chats/get along … but when you get pissed off at me i don’t like it .. i would prefer to get along … and i am only trying to help out … mby if i’m doing something that anoys you, you could just let me know and i’ll stop doing it.?”

    hope it goes well πŸ™‚

    Thanks for your help πŸ™‚ Hopefully it works

    It will .. I’m an expert at clearing up messy family connections πŸ˜‰

    Haha oh yeah? You have some rivalry also?

    Na I’m an only child … alot easyer to keep a level head when talking about something that your not envolved in tho.

    So what brings you to partyvibe?

    allow it… its not messy trust me…. hes got it all organised… i hate it when my mum ‘cleans up’ my ‘mess’ when its actually a careful network of wires πŸ™ (balanced on top of coke and cider cans..)

    @joshd96320 390730 wrote:

    allow it… its not messy trust me…. hes got it all organised… i hate it when my mum ‘cleans up’ my ‘mess’ when its actually a careful network of wires πŸ™ (balanced on top of coke and cider cans..)

    haha yeah … for people with interchanging needs …. you need a big fuck off mess of wires that you don’t have to neatly rearange after :weee:

    @DaftFader 390735 wrote:

    haha yeah … for people with interchanging needs …. you need a big fuck off mess of wires that you don’t have to neatly rearange after :weee:

    exactly… somebody who understands me :love:

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    :laugh_at: :crazy:

    I’m a telecoms engineer (amongst other roles) and have had a phone system in the last two houses, my extended family live outside the UK and we use the phone a lot for overseas calls. When I was living at home with my sister and the cat I had to tidy up at least some of the wires other than the ones going into the CCU (the main bit of a phone system) and fix them to the wall as the cat would pull them out, and he sat there looking smug when I had to fix them and got a shock off 100V ringing voltage…

    My mum is currently staying at my house in Ipswich as she is back in England for a bit, but knows better than to move or tidy up stray wires, nor switch off computers left powered up in the stairwell or anything in my room with flashing lights on it “to save electricity”, as that means all the telephones in the house stop working and she can’t use the net!

    Often these cables are carrying live calls/data so its not a good idea to shift them, people work from home a lot these days and route office calls through their home networks (I’ve done it for business continuity when the leccy has been switched off at my office in bumpkin land). People expect stuff to be done quickly and test system/labs are often set up at home.

    the state of that punchdown block (the wiring in the first pic) is horrendous, all the pairs are misallocated too… wherever that was I’m amazed any of their phones work! Even Openreach’s worst cable monkeys aren’t that bad!

    Auch wenn du am Abgrund stehst, und gar nichts mehr verstehst,
    wachen Engel ΓΌber dich, halten dich im Licht und lassen dich nie fallen.

    @DaftFader 390715 wrote:

    Na I’m an only child … alot easyer to keep a level head when talking about something that your not envolved in tho.

    So what brings you to partyvibe?

    Only child…lucky you!! I wish that was me. The only reason why I flip out about these things is because I brought my two month old kitty with me…I just really cannot imagine if anything could happen to her and plus the mess is a huge ordeal for me.

    I have been on PartyVibe for I think a year or if not longer now..Just sort of so I can talk to people, share stories/parties and well help out with some other people too. I really enjoy helping others and making there day πŸ™‚

    How about you? What brings you to PV?

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