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iโm not to participate in any scenes iโm pure going cos I have the outfits and I want to express myself, if its really any good iโll even apply for work as a dancer there, even if there is some kind of puritan protest going on to close it down as no doubt there will be.
People will always be pissed off about something or other but as long as whatever you choose 2 use or dod oes no1 else any harm then whats the problem?
@pikachops 589187 wrote:
iโm not to participate in any scenes iโm pure going cos I have the outfits and I want to express myself, if its really any good iโll even apply for work as a dancer there, even if there is some kind of puritan protest going on to close it down as no doubt there will be.
The general population doesnโt give a shit about the fetish/kinky scene, Iโve literally never heard of a protest outside a kinky club/party.
There are protests outside 50 shades because its a story about rape/and abuse.
Youโll also find that โfeministsโ (at least the groups I know in Brighton) are very accepting of alternative sexualities. (when/if you go to Brighton pride festival, you will find several BDSM stalls.)
radical feminist acceptance yeah that middleclass white woman scene and I have argued the point about female submission to male many times, we arenโt going to agree and I am not on this site to argue. I was merely posting my perspective.
My apologies, I assumed when you posted a thread about something that it was open for discussion.
I donโt even know what you donโt agree with me on, as you havenโt expanded on anything I have said.
Fuck Christian Grey. I dislike the book and the movie too! Sorry just stressing my point out that I dislike when abuse is used as form of pleasure.
@horny2night 592478 wrote:
Fuck Christian Grey. I dislike the book and the movie too! Sorry just stressing my point out that I dislike when abuse is used as form of pleasure.
abuse is fine when its consensual and part of โgameโ (ike, some people love being spanked and choked) But in the books he really mentally abuses her outside of the bedroom and it makes me sad that so many women donโt see this as a problem. Itโs worrying how normal so many people find abuse :'(
btw AMAZING arse, Iโm a straight female so really just admiring. How do you get it like that? x
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