globalloon wrote:
you old cynic
i know loads of very happy, stable couples.. party heads too
I can count the number of these I know on my fingers of my hands (although these couples are solid), a few people are getting married this year
The rest of the people I have come across on the rave scene seem to be spending their time using one another or are just after short term flings.
I’ve also seen a lot of couples broken up by the stresses of raving/partying (money problems, hassles with law etc, drug-induced paranoia and jealousy) and heard some really dark stories about people whom I thought “loved” one another which I shall not elaborate on here.
That said I have always lived in a city area of SE England or London until recently.
I wonder if this does make a difference as when life is competitive and all about manipulating people and fighting this mindset gets brought home..
