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DO’s and DON’Ts of EVERYTHING

What the fuck is the matter with people these days? They’re walking around, wearing sandals, not paying for shit and talking about their dreams. Don’t they know the rules? It’s time we write a definitive guide to everything in the world, a list of DOs & DON’Ts that people can reference seriously and systematically for the rest of their lives.

CONVERSATION

We’re sitting in a bar last night and some middle-class penis in a checked shirt and pleated trousers comes up to us and says, “Hey guys, I’m Don. Got a minute?” Then he tells us that he just got back with a girl he had originally lost because he “took her for granted.” When we angrily asked why we should give a shit, he was shocked. He didn’t understand what our problem was and pointed out that he was being “sweet.” “I’m usually an obnoxious loudmouth,” he added. We told him that obnoxious loudmouths are a lot more interesting than self-indulgent “me me me” shitheads like him, but all he could say was things like “I’m just reaching out. I’m not known for reaching out.” The more we gave him shit for talking about himself, the more he defended himself by talking about himself. What are we, therapists? Don’t people know the basic laws of conversation?

1. DON’T TALK ABOUT YOURSELF

If you want to start out a conversation by talking about yourself, it better involve the rest of us pretty damn fast or we’re going to tune out. You’re “usually an obnoxious loudmouth” but now you’re being “sweet”? OK, ask us what we are and which is a better type of person to be. Obnoxious loudmouths are actually nicer than nice people because at least they care enough to be sincere and whatever, whatever. The important thing is, once we got off the topic of you and made it more general, we would have an overall conclusion from which everyone could glean something.

A conversation is supposed to go: anecdote about you, then anecdote about me, then anecdote about him, then we all get together and come up with a general conclusion that unites all our anecdotes into one big summation about human nature.

2. DON’T ASK A QUESTION JUST SO SHE WILL ASK YOU THE SAME THING

When a guy wants to talk about himself, he’ll do this thing where he asks the girl a question he secretly wants to be asked. For example, if he wants to tell her how cute he was when he was an angry young man, he’ll ask, “What did it say on the back of your leather jacket when you were punk?” Then, while she sits there saying, “Well, I didn’t really have a leather jacket with stuff on it when I was into punk. I would just wear a black sweatshirt,” etc. But he’s not even listening because he’s too busy thinking, “Yeah, yeah, whatever, when is she going to stop talking so I can tell her how mine said ‘If you’re not angry you’re part of the problem’?”

3. DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR DREAMS

Nobody cares about your dreams, you idiot. “It wasn’t really my dad. It was, like, a composite of my dad and Owen Wilson, and we were going on this road trip but there were bees everywhere…” Can you go fill up a syringe of care juice so I can shoot it in my veins, please? How am I supposed to stay awake to hear a made-up story that you didn’t even consciously make up and you don’t even really remember? Maybe if one of us was in the fucking thing, we could while away the time psychoanalysing the meaning of the dream and what it meant about our relationship, but shit, talking about your dreams is worse than talking about yourself. You weren’t even really there, for fuck’s sake.

4. DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR JOB

“What do you do?” is the lamest and most boring question there is. Asking people about their jobs means they are defined by what they do, and it’s not 1950, so fuck off. The worst part is when people actually answer it and start getting into the nuances of their job and how they totally nailed that proposal and how everyone knows it but Gordon. Dude, I don’t care if your job is battling Argonauts. We don’t want to hear it. The only people who have jobs exciting enough to talk about are sick of talking about their exciting jobs so, by definition, job talk has got to go. If that means knowing someone for days without knowing what they do, so be it. Are you so shallow you need to know everyone’s job before you can like them?

5. DON’T ASK WHAT “ETHNIC BACKGROUND” PEOPLE ARE

Basically, it’s the same as the above DON’T. Why do you have to know what fucking “ethnic background” a girl is before you talk to her? Is she fresh off the boat? No, she’s not, she’s from Leeds, and so what your question is really asking is “Why do your eyes look weird?”

6. DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR KIDS

Dear parents of the world, YOUR KIDS ARE FUCKING BORING! Why did you bring them to this dinner party anyway? You knew they were going to take over every conversation by waddling too close to the stairs and forcing everyone to get up from their chairs and go, “Oooh, careful, Moses.” (What kind of name is Moses, anyway? Do you want him to get wedgied?)

Look, it’s simple: Your family is your own business. Your mum is the world’s greatest mum, true, but so is mine. What are we going to do, get into a debate about it? It’s private. Now, if you insist on bringing up a topic like what a selfish bastard your brother is, we can do that but, as with any “me” topic, we have to spread it around. For example, we could break it down like this: Your brother’s selfish and you’re not. Your father’s selfish and your mother isn’t. Looks like you got the mum genes and he got the dad genes. Maybe personality traits can be passed down like any other physical feature. All right, let’s compare others at the table and see which sibling got which parent’s gene. Hey, we’re seeing a pattern here. It seems that…what? Oh wait, shit, where’s Moses? “Oh cute, he’s playing with the doggie,” and just like that, there goes the only bearable conversation of the night. The only thing I want to talk about now is abortion.

7. DON’T TALK ABOUT THE WEATHER

If someone starts talking about the weather for more than, say, a minute, you have to interrupt them and say, “I’m sorry, I don’t do weather.”

8. DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR PETS

Bad news, lonely person: He’s not saying, “What are you doing sitting in Mummy’s chair?” He’s saying, “Food, territory, sex, fuck, food, food, territory, food.” It’s a fucking animal. And why are you correcting me when I call it a “she” when it’s actually a “he”? Oh sorry, did I hurt your dog’s feelings? Is he going to have a complex now and start thinking he’s a fag? There’s nothing masculine or feminine about something that eats its own shit, lady. It’s a glorified bug concerned with one thing: the food source. Animals are stupid, all right? That’s why we eat them. So stop talking like your nutrient-worshipping personality slave has any kind of relevance outside your sad existence. Nobody cares.

9. DON’T TALK ABOUT ASTROLOGY

What? You actually believe in that horseshit? Have you ever tested it out? Tell someone you’re a sign that you aren’t and see if they go, “Hmm, that’s strange. You seem a lot more like a Scorpio” or whatever you really are. Astrology is a stupid person’s desperate attempt to impose order on a world they feel is totally beyond their control. It is a science for people too lazy and uneducated to understand real science. If someone says, “What sign are you?” you should hear “Get the fuck out of here. I’m crazy.”

Oh, and that thing where you go “I’m sorry, but I’m psychic” is for babies. You are not psychic. You are a person who remembers strange things more than you remember boring things. That’s called “selective memory” or “trying to appear special.”

10. DON’T SAY “REMEMBER WHEN?”

When you reunite with an old friend it’s verboten to sit there going, “Remember when I accidentally shot you with an air pistol?” or “Remember when your dog puked in my hair?” Those are OK stories and everything, but you’re saying that those old times were way better than the time you’re having right now and that means that there’s no real reason you two should be meeting again. Either have new times or let the past stay as it was and never meet again.

There, that’s not so hard, is it? There’s still plenty of good shit you can talk about. Is your relationship going badly? Let’s hear about it. Did your girlfriend come home early and find you with a whore? By all means, let’s have it. Gossiping is also a great thing. As long as the story actually happened, you can embellish all you want. You can even cut out the middleman and replace the hero of the story with you. Go nuts. Hey, let’s talk shit about people. If some really evil things fall in the woods and the person you’re talking about never hears what you said, it never made a sound. As Winston Churchill taught us: “What people say about me behind my back is none of my business.”

Actually, you know what? Fuck this. You need to know a lot more shit. You need to know the DOs & DON’Ts of everything.

DOs & DON’Ts—Racial ears

Don’t freak out if a person of a different race doesn’t react to you like someone from your race would. Be aware that most blacks and whites in the West have different techniques for showing that they are listening closely to what you are saying. Whites will nod and say little things like “Really?” while blacks will simply look you in the eye and give you their full attention.

DOs & DON’Ts—Saying “nigger”

Contrary to popular belief, white people can say “nigger.” The trick is how they say it. Black people have a special frequency oscilloscope in their ears that can decipher whether the “nigger” that was uttered was a racial slur or just a rude comedy term. If you want to know which one you just said, you have to ask them.

DOs & DON’Ts—Haterade

Never accuse someone of being a “hater” when they have a differing opinion on a song, an artwork, or an idea. Whatever happened to genuinely not liking something? “Hater” implies a level of jealousy, but I am not jealous of The Rapture, wristbands, or Sex and the City. I simply don’t like them.

DOs & DON’Ts—Your favourite film

Do try to keep in mind that the reason you love a particular movie or CD is probably not because it is a universal classic for all humanity, but because it appeals to your personal peculiarities. Stop trying to bully us into liking what you like. Oh, and don’t try to force your tastes on your girlfriend or boyfriend. The reason you are sexually attracted to that person is because she or he is different from you. Those differences include pop-culture, tastes you boorish oaf.

DOs & DON’Ts—Music

Don’t talk about music. Nobody cares what you listen to. It’s nice that The Clash “changed your life,” but save it for your grandkids. The one exception to this rule is a bit of nerding out if you are up at 5 a.m. coking out to records. Even in that situation, however, use music talk sparingly.

DOs & DON’Ts—Jokes

Don’t tell every joke you think of. Just don’t be that person with a million zany jokes, because he is a walking variety show and people inch away from him at parties. His girlfriend of three years hurt him really badly, but he’s just been nominated for the Perrier Award and, slowly, it’s been getting better.

DOs & DON’Ts—Old standards

Do have approximately 10 funny things that you know will bring the house down. “Routines” is what comedians call them. Like, if a really popular song is playing in the bar, say, “I can’t believe they’re playing this demo. My voice sounds like shit on this mix. Do you like it? This is a super-rough mix and after it gets compressed it will probably sound a lot better.” If you do this during a Rolling Stones song and the person thinks you’re serious, X that person. X-ing people is absolutely necessary for survival.

DOs & DON’Ts—Stealing from English-as-a-second-language speakers

Try scowling and saying, “Do you know what I’m talking about?” when you mean “Know what I am saying?” We knew an exchange student who did that, and it ruled. Asking if people want to “make a party” is good too.

DOs & DON’Ts—Choosing your battles

Don’t argue politics with your neighbours, co-workers, or other people you need to get along with. Calling somebody an idiot for liking Bush is what the internet is for. Besides, political arguments are better in emails because you get time to do your research and you can provide links to all your points.

DOs & DON’Ts—Copping out

Do not try to talk about shit you don’t know about and then, when you are called out on your bullshit, say, “Everything is just bullshit anyways.”

DOs & DON’Ts—Casualty wards

Boys. If you’re drunk and you find yourself in the accident & emergency ward with an icepack on your forehead it’s very likely that you are a piece of shit who picked a fight with somebody. You probably lost. This does not make you a hero or a victim. The people who work at hospitals see idiots like you every time they go to work so when you start flirting with the nurse who’s cleaning the broken beer bottle out of your forehead and she starts smiling at you, it doesn’t mean she likes you. It means she’s planning to tell the person who’s about to stitch your head up that you’re even more of a human slug than anybody imagined. Do not crack “jokes” or try to be “funny” or complain about the waiting times. The nurses will call the police and make the waiting even longer, or stitch your head up so painfully that you will unwittingly start wimpering and squeezing your disgusting limp dick for comfort.

DOs & DON’Ts—Sport fans

If you insist on talking about some game you like, don’t use the word “we,” as in “We’re losing two-nil” or especially, “We’re winning,” or, “If only we had a decent winger who could improve distribution to the box.” We, eh? You and the general manager are going to sit down and tackle that at some point in the near future? No. YOU are not. You get to witness a team full of transient millionaires compete in a game in which, no matter how hard you wish, wear your special hat, or cry, you have ZERO to do with the outcome. You aren’t on the team. You aren’t a paid consultant to the team. You’re a fan of the team. Would you apply this shit to a band? Like, “I know Garcia has been dead for about eight years, but who are we gonna get to replace him?” or “How many dates are we touring?” or “Man, we played an amazing show last night.” NO, you would never do that. Or even a favourite porn star? “We gotta dance in Albania. That’s where we can earn the big money. Let’s shake our tits. Boy, we really sucked that cock last night. God, I love it when we get a hot blast of cum on our implants.”

DOs & DON’Ts—Shots

If someone buys you a shot, you have to do it, no matter what. If you’re too hung-over or the bar is about to close, you can pretend to do it by throwing it over your shoulder, but if you get caught that person has the right to never speak to you again. It is also considered good form to match your friend shot-for-shot. This is a matter of not asking your buddy to do something you wouldn’t do yourself.

DOs & DON’Ts—Karaoke

There are some very basic rules to karaoke:

1. Do not hog the mic. Try to sing a number of songs proportionate to how many people are there; if there are three people, you should be singing one-third of the songs. This applies to shy people, too. Don’t go to karaoke if you don’t want to sing.
2. Pay your way. I don’t care how little you sing or how you didn’t even want to come out tonight. If you are there for even a minute, you are part of the problem. As soon as you walk in the door, you better be prepared to shell out about £20 for the night.
3. No slow jams. They are buzzkills.
4. Only sing songs that you actually know. We’re not here to watch you try and figure out lyrics. Rap is next to impossible to do, so you better have heard it about 10,000 times before you choose it as a karaoke jam.
5. Sing it as the guy. If you do Prince, try to sound like Prince. If you do Springsteen’s “I’m on Fire,” you better hoarse up your voice so it sounds right.
6. Only one person on the mic at a time. If you want to sing along, do it without a mic. The only time other people are allowed to pick up the mic is during the chorus. This is an especially hard rule to follow during Oasis and U2, but sorry dude, that’s why there’s rules.
7. Finally, if you are karaokeing in one of those private rooms with a karaoke rig that has a remote control, NEVER utilise the “Delete” button on said remote until you have figured out who chose the song in question and confirmed with them that they will abdicate the song. This exchange will usually take no more than five seconds.

DOs & DON’Ts—Drinking

Ideally, men only drink beer. That way, when you are kind enough to get a round, you don’t have a bunch of woman saying, “I’ll have a raspberry vodka with a splash of Citron and a fucking lime” or whatever. How are we supposed to remember five woman drinks? “Five Buds for five buds” is all we should have to remember.
Women, on the other hand, can drink whatever the fuck they want. They look like fun tomboys when they drink beer and they look like classy broads when they drink Manhattans, so the whole spectrum is great news (go bananas).

DOs & DON’Ts—One night on, one night off

One of the oldest roadie rules of survival is never party two nights in a row. You have to stay in and recover every second night. If your girlfriend still thinks this is too much, you may tell her to fuck off. The day after your recovery, you should be getting some kind of exercise or something because you are a fat piece of shit.

DOs & DON’Ts—Cigarettes

Always let people bum cigarettes, no matter how many you have left. It is a fucking cigarette, and it’s the principle of the thing we’re talking about here.

DOs & DON’Ts—Drugs

If you aren’t at work, smoke weed whenever you want. But you are not allowed to go around telling everyone how stoned you are. That’s for 13-year-olds.

As we’ve said before, no bumps of coke after 4:30 a.m.

Prior to age 25, it is OK to have one night of dabbling with heroin every six months. After 25, no more getting down with the brown. You’ll just look like a gross old junkie the next day. You can switch to pills for your every-six-months opiate indulgence until you have kids. Then you never get to relax again until you’re a pensioner.

DOs & DON’Ts—Random dudes

Girls: Don’t be rude to guys who come up to you even somewhat respectfully in bars. They’re only doing it because they think you are pretty.

Do engage with maniacs who bare their souls to you at parties. If someone tells you how his mother died of pancreatic cancer, ask a million questions. What did it feel like? What did the room she died in smell like? Don’t be struck dumb and usually it will even out within five minutes. Before you know it, he’s telling you how he hates cheap watches.

DOs & DON’Ts—Never say never

Don’t ever say no to a reasonable invitation to do something that might be fun. This is a WASP rule, and one of the reasons why rich white people rule the planet.

DOs & DON’Ts—Drunk partners

It’s always risky to whisper to your boy/girl that they’re waaay too drunk and maybe they should go home from the bar where everybody is laughing at them.

All you’re going to get in response is: “Get the fuck off meeee, bitch. You don’t know what it’s like.” Then they will bring up all kinds of shit they never wanted to bring up before, like how their mother hates you. If they do this, the best way to handle it is NOT to start screaming back at them. You just maintain a calm face, shrug your shoulders at the people around you, and hope that one of them is your buddy and will help you out. His or your friends are much better at getting your drunken piece-of-shit boyfriend to go home than you are.

DOs & DON’Ts—Hosting

If you have a party, you have to pay for everything. If you can’t afford to pay for booze, you have to make it very clear during the invite and apologise the whole time. Also, a host should be constantly worried that people aren’t having a good time. He has to say, “Don’t worry about it,” if something gets broken, and he has to clean up everything all by himself. Same with having people over for dinner. Guests may not do any dishes. The most they will be allowed to do is carry their plates to the kitchen. Same goes for threesomes. If you set it up, you have to make sure everyone’s taken care of.

DOs & DON’Ts—Time to leave

Maybe the reason this party’s turned “gay” and all the music’s turned down isn’t because everybody’s “boring.” It’s probably because they want you to leave. Don’t start saying outrageous bullshit like “So what’s your favourite race of people and your worst race of people?” to provoke a reaction. Just fucking go home. Outstaying your welcome is one of the world’s biggest DON’Ts.

DOs & DON’Ts—Selling cocaine

Being a coke dealer can play on your conscience, so if one of your customers starts ordering 20 grams a week for themselves and you can see they’re starting to fall to pieces, just tell them you’re going on holiday. Now it’s going to be a bit tougher for them to get their blow. It’s also going to be easier for them to slow down, and you won’t lose your trade altogether like you would have if you’d refused to sell them any or given them a big speech.

Remember, a good clientele is one of the most important things a drug dealer can possess. If your best customers start dying, then all their friends (who’re probably customers as well) will hate you.

Also, if you’re a coke dealer and you’ve been selling to the same person for ages, it never hurts to give them a free one every so often. And the “no credit” rule is a rule that you shouldn’t stick to if you don’t want to be replaced by the 878 different dealers who live in the same square mile as you. One or two free bags or a credit note every six months isn’t going to kill you.

DOs & DON’Ts—Exploiting addict friends

If a friend has a problem with a serious drug like crack or heroin, you can’t ask them to score that stuff for you when you’re drunk. Even if they’ve done it once or twice before, it’s not cool. You know when you think, “Ah, fuck it, let’s ring them and get them to score,” and you call about four times a day? Even though they’re saying, “OK, man, yeah, I’ll sort it out later,” they actually mean “I’m having a big problem with this, and I don’t want to do it.”

DOs & DON’Ts—Nightclub drug deals

When you’re at a party or club and you’re about to buy some ecstasy from the only dealer you can find, don’t ask him if the pills are any good because he’s not going to say, “They’re rubbish, mate. I don’t know what’s in them. Save your money if I were you.” Try to conceal your desperation—it’s always a seller’s market in these situations. That shifty-looking guy is not your friend, and even though he said he’d be around all night since he’s having such a great time selling shitty drugs to idiots, don’t be surprised if you never see him again.

DOs & DON’Ts—Cheating

You can only cheat in the first six months of a relationship. The No. 1 rule of this is, the mistress has to know you have a girlfriend. Of course, it’s difficult to court a girl when you’re taken so what you have to say is “We have an open relationship but it’s disrespectful to shove it in her face so let’s try to keep it on the DL.” If you get caught cheating, the only thing you have to remember is deny, deny, deny.

DOs & DON’Ts—Farting

Girls can never fart, no matter what. If they feel they have one coming on, they have to go the bathroom with a pack of matches. They can also never openly admit to pooing. That means running the taps when it comes out and NEVER walking into the bathroom with a magazine. Boys can fart in front of girls after six months of dating or 100 fucks (whichever comes first).

DOs & DON’Ts—Getting your man a beer

A woman always has to get her man a beer. Not at a bar, that would be ridiculous, but at home or at a party, she should always make sure he has a beer in his hand. At a bar, the opposite is true. A man always has to procure a woman a drink. He has to get up and get it and he has to pay for it. Sucks when you’re broke, but if she’s worth her salt she’ll cut you some slack and buy a round or two.

DOs & DON’Ts—Dating

You’re not allowed to date someone your friend dated—ever. By the same token, you are never allowed to date your ex’s friends. If you want to go out with a girl but you kind of know her ex-boyfriend, that’s fine. Just don’t expect to be friends with him ever again.

DOs & DON’Ts—Male/female friendships

A man in a relationship cannot have pretty female friends. It is inappropriate for a guy in a relationship to go to a movie with a girl who is more than a 7 out of 10. It is perfectly acceptable to go to a movie with a fat ugly girl. He can even stay at her house overnight. Women may not have any male friends at all (except fags).

DOs & DON’Ts—Being pussy-whipped

If you are doing things you don’t want to do more than 50% of the time, you are pussy-whipped. There’s a fine line between being a caring boyfriend and being whipped, so the only way to know for sure is to ask your friends. As a general rule, if there are things you are “not allowed” to do, you are whipped. Other indications include: you are expected to provide foot massages, you sincerely like her friends, you divide the housework evenly, you divide the cooking evenly, you’re worried she’s mad at you, you talk about her hair.

DOs & DON’Ts—Fighting

If your girlfriend or boyfriend starts a fight with you, leave the room and don’t come back for 24 hours. If it’s something really worth arguing about, the argument will still be there the next day. As a rule, men who are angry with each other will keep it to themselves for seven days. If they still feel the same way by the end of the week, they will bring it up in a calm, controlled manner.

You are allowed to slap a woman in the face approximately once a year. She has to be completely hysterical, though, and she has to thank you for it the next day.

DOs & DON’Ts—Family

The second you ejaculate into a woman, you have to start thinking about how you’re going to pay for its education. If your parents don’t happily pay for all your education, they are stupid gaylords. No matter how poor you are. They’re also supposed to help you start a business and pay for the wedding and help you buy a house. Of course, once they get too old to live normally, you have to take them in. Retirement homes are not cool.

DOs & DON’Ts—Babies

After university, girls have to decide if they want babies or a career. If you think you’re going to be a graphic designer and then stop everything at 36, find the right guy, have the baby, and then go back to your career when the kid starts pre-school, you are sadly mistaken. Your eggs are shit at 36. Don’t get mad at us, it’s God’s fault. So if you don’t want to be a lonely spinster who watches Sex and the City like it’s on fire, get over careers and find a reliable man.

P.S. Careers aren’t that great anyways.

DOs & DON’Ts—Assimilating

When you move to a new city, you have to go on walking tours and rent DVDs about it and stuff like that. If you move to a new country, you have to like it. That means learning the language, speaking it at home, and not minding if your daughter marries one of them. Does that mean you can’t wear your turban if you become a New York City cop? ’Fraid so.

DOs & DON’Ts—Dreams are free, motherfucker

Don’t hate your boyfriend for thinking about fucking other people. First off: People imagine doing all sorts of things without ever really wanting to do them. These include kicking the boss in the nuts or setting a tramp on fire. Plus, a relationship wouldn’t be worth anything if it weren’t hard work. It’s hard not to fuck everything you want, but it is impossible not to think about it. Thinking is not doing.

Secondly: Do you really think he will ever meet Scarlett Johansson, much less be able to pick her up if does?

DOs & DON’Ts—Creepy guys

Late at night on a deserted street, a guy shouldn’t walk close behind a girl he doesn’t know. Crossing to the other side of the street and walking parallel with her is particularly gentlemanly. It shows you aren’t a threat but you are there for her in case a bad man shows up.

DOs & DON’Ts—No babies in your fifth-floor walk-up

Unless you are rich, once you have a baby, it’s time to start planning to move out of the city to a house with a garden in a suburb with good schools. Yes, you are turning into your parents. Deal with it.

DOs & DON’Ts—Your fucking alarm

The reason why your flatmate has to knock on your door every morning is because your alarm clock went off 25 minutes ago and it sounds like Baghdad after dark. I once lived with a guy who did this every day for a year. It’s like a lot of things on this list. Self-awareness is everything.

DOs & DON’Ts—Done is done

Even if you try your hardest to be civil to each other after a long relationship, you have to get over the fact that no matter how in love you were, you split up for a reason and now you’re both fucking other people and things’ll never be the same again. If you’re still on good terms and you’re introduced to your replacement (big mistake), then it’ll just freak everyone out, regardless of how polite everyone is trying to be, because what you really want to do is ask, “How the fuck can you be sleeping with him/her?” and it’ll end in tears.

DOs & DON’Ts—Fuck-frequency

In the first year of a relationship, you have to do it at least four times a week. Second year it goes down to three. From the third year to the fifth year, you have to do it at least twice a week. After that, it’s once a week until you get married, then it’s never (seriously).

DOs & DON’Ts—Fooling around with your friends

There are some very simple guidelines for this:

1. Don’t do it. You can’t go below the belt and not have things get weird.
2. If you absolutely must horse around, never go home with them. Fool around at parties or bars, so when you go home it’s like nothing happened.
3. The next day, call your friend and make light of what happened, so when you see them it’s not weird.

DOs & DON’Ts—Duration

No matter what Italians tell you, sex has to last at least 15 minutes. If you feel like you’re going to bust a nut before that, then pull out and go down on her. Ewww, it tastes like condom? Boo-hoo, you fucking baby! Get back to work!

DOs & DON’Ts—Swallowing cum on the first date

Only fags and desperate sluts swallow on the first date. To most men, it reeks of desperation and a desire to “own” a part of that person forever. Plus, swallowing is overrated. It’s much raunchier, healthier, and emotionally attractive to finish him off on your tits, letting a tiny silver dewdrop of cum go on your chin or something.

Also, if any cum goes on the guy, it’s better to offer him an old shirt off the floor than to leave him to shuffle awkwardly to the bathroom on his own.

DOs & DON’Ts—Shaving

Women have to shave their pits and their legs and the bush has to be kept in a triangular shape no larger than half the size of a potato. No pussy hairs are permitted around or below the bottom third of the lips. All men have to do is keep their face from becoming a huge beard. Sounds shitty if you’re female, but women get to give life. Men don’t get to do that. Plus, men have to pay for everything forever.

DOs & DON’Ts—Reaming your girlfriend

It’s fun to hate-fuck your girlfriend (that doesn’t mean forcible entry, it means you fuck her like a dirty animal and pretend in your head she hates you) but she’s not really into getting reamed from behind every single time. The deal is you have to make love to her three out of four times. That leaves about one time a week you get to bang the living shit out of her like she’s a disgusting whore (is it normal to have a boner right now?).

DOs & DON’Ts—Strapping it on

No matter what Dan Savage says, if you let your girlfriend fuck you in the ass with a strap-on, you are not “experimenting,” you are “gay.”

DOs & DON’Ts—Dirty old men

Gents over 30! Do you realise that the 18-year-old girl that you are dating makes you look like the biggest creep in the world? All decent men hate you. And how can you live with constantly checking your bald patch in the bathroom at the bar in case she notices it? And trying to score tickets for Usher concerts and wearing vests, wooden chokers, and fake tan? How tight is that pussy? How small is your cock?

Girls under 18! If your boyfriend is over 30, you are basically being constantly lied to and RAPED every day of your relationship. Your stupid friends may think you’re cool, but your parents would kill you if they knew about it, and all his buddies think you’re a little whore and will try and fuck you at every given opportunity. Why do old men want to fuck 18-year-olds anyway? As we’ve said a hundred times before: “It’s like playing tennis with a toddler.” Pick on someone your own size.

DOs & DON’Ts—Orgasms

Women don’t cum from fucking as easily as men, so she doesn’t have to have an orgasm every time he does. “Sowwy.” It’s just not practical. A man only has to provide a woman with one orgasm for every three he has. It’s not like she’s going to get blue balls. She doesn’t even have balls. This does not include masturbating, by the way—that’s private.

DOs & DON’Ts—The basic rules of fashion

The basic rule is: You have to be at least a little uncomfortable.

We are in an epoch right now when everyone is determined to be at a sleepover. Nobody can endure any discomfort whatsoever, not even for a moment. If a woman goes out on a limb and gets dressed up one night, she punishes the world by wearing tracksuit bottoms and flip-flops for days after. If a man feels even slightly warm he takes his shirt off and lets the whole world see his hairy tits. Back in Victorian times, we were wearing three-piece suits and top hats in the middle of July. Can we not have at least a modicum of discipline? It’s not that hard. Men just need to stay away from belly tattoos, chokers, cargo shorts, combat pants, umbrellas (under any circumstances), coloured sunglasses, long hair, tribal tattoos, wool hats, and piercings. Women need to avoid platform flip-flops, belly-button piercings, toe rings, cleavage, low-riding jeans if they’re chubby (we’re mainly talking to British and Italians), thongs, shirts made to look like tattoos, cowboy hats, fake tans, and Von Dutch.

DOs & DON’Ts—Shopping

The secret to buying clothes is to have your look totally figured out before you walk into the store. That’s how the mods did it. Fred Perry, Ben Sherman, bowling shoes, loafers, and parkas. If they saw a great pair of baggy cords, too bad, it’s not mod (no matter what Madness say about trousers). You need to do that too. Is she going for rich hippy? OK, that means only really expensive shoes, flowing summer dresses, and the odd tassled leather jacket. Want some free black leather Converse? No, you don’t, because that’s not rich hippy. What about a vintage Judas Priest shirt? Nope. But if after a year or two she decides she’s going for a Cheech & Chong theme, then all those dresses have to go to the secondhand store for resale. Now stumbling across some leather Converse and a Judas Priest shirt is a blessing. The key to this whole philosophy is to be able to say no to a total score. If you’re going for preppie prick and you see an amazing pair of Lemmy cowboy boots that fit you perfectly, you have to walk away. Call your sponsor if you have to. Shopping is about staying focused and keeping your eye on the prize!

DOs & DON’Ts—Hippy fruit drinks

Are you a baby? No? Then you can take a piece of fucking fruit and put it in your mouth and chew. It’s way cheaper and those drinks are full of salmonella. A friend of ours worked at one of those fruity health-drink plants in Vancouver and her job was picking out plasters and parts of hippies’ beards all day with her bare hands.

DOs & DON’Ts—Halloween

Sexy Halloween costumes are lame. They are supposed to signify the woman wearing it is a hot-to-trot sexpot, but the truth is always the opposite. It’s like the girl who talks about giving head all the time and then you go home with her and it’s like she’s chewing on a Mars Bar. If you want to find the really “sexy” (how gross is that word?) girl, go find the one who blacked out her teeth to become Alfred E. Neumann.

DOs & DON’Ts—Augmentation

Do not have plastic surgery. Nine out of 10 plastic surgeons admit they would never do it to a member of their own family. The few who have performed it on their wives are usually repairing some other guy’s fuck-up. The nose looks scary, the lips are drag queen, and the tits have to be replaced every five years. Ask anyone who has had anything done; they all regret it.

DOs & DON’Ts—Laundry

If you drop off a big load, it’s £10. If you do it yourself it takes about four hours and costs £6. Have you ever heard of a thing called maths? You are essentially being paid £1/hour. Why don’t you go work at McDonald’s for those four hours, and your laundry would be for free?

DOs & DON’Ts—Running for the train or bus

Stop sprinting down the stairs like it’s Judgment Day. There’s another one coming in 10 minutes.

DOs & DON’Ts—The 30 rule

When men turn 30, they can no longer wear kooky clothes. That means no more weird Nikes. It also means no more hair dyeing of any kind, no more shorts (ever), and no more collarless shirts. The most casual you are allowed on a hot day is: white trousers, Chucks, and a polo. Your ultimate goal as a 30+ is to look like Cassavetes in Rosemary’s Baby. Women over 30 have to give up knee-high socks, pigtails, and shirts with cartoons on them. Basically, anything girlie. Besides that, you can do whatever you want. There are more rules for men than women over 30 because that is the age when men have to go from being attractive to being providers. Women are always supposed to at least try to be attractive.

DOs & DON’Ts—Being a man

Men are not allowed to wear any kind of baby-carrying knapsack. A kid only weighs 30 pounds, and if you can’t carry that, you’re not much of a dad. Men’s bikes cannot have baskets, and men cannot wear helmets. Actually, neither gender can wear bike helmets, not even messengers. What is with this obsession with safety, anyways? Does your mummy follow you around kvetching in your ear about how dangerous everything is? Men cannot wear overalls or mittens or anything that a kid would wear. Men cannot pay more than £20 for a haircut, and ideally would just do it at home with a pair of clippers. If it takes you more than 15 minutes to get ready, you are a fag.

DOs & DON’Ts—Shoes

Men cannot show their toes in any capacity at any time of year. No way, hozay. In the summer, he ideally wears some light classics like Chuck Taylors, Wallabees, desert boots, Rod Lavers, loafers, etc. In the winter, he should have some utilitarian tough skins like Red Deers or Kodiaks.

Ideally, women wear high-heel shoes at all times, especially in the kitchen. Unfortunately, this is Earth and gravity exists here. Therefore a woman has to wear heels whenever she can. That means moments when there’s not a lot of walking going on (dates, a plane ride, the movies, a road trip, dinner parties). If it’s a big walking day, she may wear flats or sneakers. Though most girls would like to just throw in the towel and wear flip-flops every day, that is not allowed. A woman may wear flip-flops three days a week (never at night). Why do women want to wear flip-flops so badly anyways––because their feet have to breathe? OK, why don’t you cut some holes in the back of your jeans so your bum can breathe? What are you, a nudist? By the way, when you come home, wash your fucking feet. They’re black on the bottom.

Neither gender can wear sandals of any kind at any time. “What about if I’m walking upstream in Costa Rica? Can’t I wear Tevas then?” Sorry, asshole. If you are on holiday, we will allow men to wear flip-flops, but that’s it. Sport sandals do not exist. If the terrain is too rugged and slippery for flip-flops (like walking upstream), you will just have to get your Chucks wet.

Also, square-toed shoes are unacceptable for either gender. They are as bad on those corny “smart trainers” as they are on dress shoes. Buckles on shoes are bad too (doye).

DOs & DON’Ts—Perfume, makeup, and nail polish

Men who do any kind of serious grooming at all are fucking losers. Highlights, gel, eyebrow plucking, chest waxing, pedicures (shudder)––all that shit is totally unacceptable at any age. Women can wear perfume and makeup, we guess, but it’s not appreciated. Like expensive haircuts, makeup and perfume are something women spend all their money on even though men couldn’t give less of a shit (keep spending all your cash on shoes, though, we do care about those). Women may not paint their toenails any colour darker than pink. All this bloodred and brown is making us puke, so please stop.

DOs & DON’Ts—Jeans and high heels

We know it’s been said before, and it will be said again (most likely by us) until every female on earth who is not related to us picks up on it. This is the Rolling Stones of outfits: absolutely foolproof, guaranteed boner material. Even if you’re fat (shit, especially if you’re fat).

DOs & DON’Ts—Complicated tattoos

Honestly, we’d rather you just get a sick Tasmanian Devil caged in tribal bars with a voice-bubble full of Chinese symbols than listen to your story about how this particular sacred heart with a sword on the side symbolizes this really tough time in your life and how looking at it in the mirror every morning truly makes you realise how far you’ve come.

DOs & DON’Ts—Signing on

The dole office is like a jail for people who haven’t committed crimes, so the rules are basically the same. Like prison, you can quickly make enemies. Don’t make conversation beyond necessary questions like “are you in line?”. Don’t whistle. Above all, remember that during your “personal interview” the whole waiting room is listening, and you’re setting the bar for everyone else behind you. Don’t go out of your way to impress – just do enough to get your benefit cheque and get out of there.

DOs & DON’Ts—Vogue, etc.

Don’t read fashion magazines at all. Poor Mary Kate Olsen, she’s anorexic. Poor Karen Carpenter, she died. Fashion magazines are for the girls you hated in school. All of them––Vogue, Bazaar, W––are forced to use the clothing provided by their advertisers. That’s how they get the ads, which is how they get the money to pay for Kate Moss and cocaine. All of those magazines are basically just one big ad, and for ugly fucking clothes usually, too.

DOs & DON’Ts—Speaking up

Do tell your friends when something they are wearing is “off.” A true friend wants to save you from embarrassment, plus she feels stupid walking around with you while you’re trying to get away with MC Hammer trousers. If you don’t say it in a dick way, your friend will understand. Try “The avant garde heroin rocker thing is really working for me, but I’m not so sure about the mandals.” Your friend should laugh and be like, “Yeah, they are totally Gallagher-esque. Sorry about that.” If your friend starts to cry, dump her immediately.

DOs & DON’Ts—Scent

Don’t wear cologne. A boy’s natural scent is truly delicious. And even fresh BO is great. Sure, Drakkar Noir has an aphrodisiac in it, but we’re not 14 any more, and you don’t need to hide the pot stench from your mum.

DOs & DON’Ts—Fabulous and thick

Fat people have feelings too, and no matter what our friend Christi Bradnox says, they too have the ability to look hot. It’s all about the confidence. If you listen carefully, you’ll never hear straight guys say they aren’t into fat chicks. “She’s too fat” is the kind of thing gay guys and mean girls say. Real men could care less.

DOs & DON’Ts—The Golden Rule

Don’t go in before the other person comes out. This applies to a restaurant, a building, a bus, anything. It is so universal that you should let it philosophically inform everything else you do for the rest of your life. Don’t go in before the other person comes out.

DOs & DON’Ts—Calling shotgun

Every passenger has to be right outside the car before shotgun is called. Otherwise you could just yell “shotgun” from your bed the second you wake up. If you’re really cool, you will deliver the word with a bit of panache. Like you could say, “Hey, you guys, look at all those ducks. Man, I wish I had my SHOTGUN here so I could blow ’em all away.” When you’re saying the “blow ’em all away” part, you should say it right into everyone’s face in an “in your face, motherfuckers!” manner. Also, before saying “shotgun,” be sure to pretend you’re cocking an invisible shotgun and add the “chk chk” sound effect.

DOs & DON’Ts—Friendly punches

You can only punch someone in the arm, back, chest, or right above the knee (a Charlie horse). If someone nails you, you are allowed to get them back and you can punch them as hard as you can. If he’s all, “I barely touched you,” that’s bullshit. A punch is a punch. If you miss him or hit him way too softly, that’s your problem. You blew your chance. There are no do-overs.

DOs & DON’Ts—Dares

If you dare someone to go roll around in a swamp full of cold mud that smells like frog shit, they should do it. However, that means you have now joined the lair of the dare and the person who rolled around can dare you to eat a spider 10 years from now and you have to do it. Otherwise you’d have people daring people to do stuff willy-nilly all over the place like they were the Queen. The very act of daring someone to do something implies you are the kind of person who also does dares.

DOs & DON’Ts—Dishes

If you live in a house with a bunch of people, you need a nail in the wall by the kitchen sink that has all your names stuck to it. Like, if there’s five of you then you write everyone’s name on a separate piece of paper, punch a hole in the top and hang the papers on the nail. If your name is on the top, you do whatever dishes are in the sink, then you can move your name to the back. You have to do whatever dishes are in the sink whenever your name is at the front, whether it’s one bowl or a whole sinkful. Of course, if you’re really tenacious, you will do your turn the second your name makes it to the front. That’s not cheating. That’s how the rule was designed. If all five of you acted the same way, the sink would always be empty and the mice and the flies would be bummed.

DOs & DON’Ts—Friend quotas

You need to have at least one black friend, unless you’re black, and then you have to have at least one white friend. You don’t have to have any Puerto Rican friends, because nobody does. Everyone has to have at least one old friend (more than 10 years older than you). You don’t have to have any friends who are kids, but if you do there’s nothing wrong with having them sleep in your bed.

Men are not allowed to say the term “best friend.” They are not even allowed to think of their closest friend as their best friend, because that involves rating your friends from best to worst, and that is for girls.

DOs & DON’Ts—Xing

If someone jeopardizes your job, your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend, your relationship with your family, or your home, they are to be Xed and never spoken to again. For example, if someone tells your boyfriend you cheated on him, that person is now Xed for life. If you go to a bar and that person is there drinking a beer, you don’t see him. All you see is a beer floating in mid-air, tipping slightly, and then going back down. We wouldn’t even be surprised if you went to pick up his chair because you thought there was nobody sitting there (but don’t do that because it will look like you’re trying to make up).

There is also such a thing as partial Xs. Like if you were really counting on someone to help you out and they let you down, you can still speak to them again but just hold the X deep inside your heart. If they ever ask you for any help on anything, you will then smile and say, “I don’t think so.” If they argue, you reach inside your heart, pull out the partial X, and hold it in their face screaming, “I will never forget that time when you did that thing!”

DOs & DON’Ts—Being a guest

You are saving about £100 a night on hotel fees, so as a guest you have to buy as many rounds as possible when out, refuse to accept any drinks from your host, buy toilet paper, do all the dishes (even the ones that aren’t yours), keep your stuff in your suitcase and out of the way, and finally, leave after three days. You should leave a bottle of wine for the person as a thank-you gift. If this sounds like a lot, you are a piece of shit. Before going to visit someone, you have to budget at least £80 a day. Your host is doing you a great service by putting you up and you should try to pay back that saved hotel fee at every opportunity.

DOs & DON’Ts—Borrowing

Stop borrowing shit. We forget that we loaned it to you and then when we really need it, we have no idea where it is. Then we end up having to go out and buy a new one. If you like Capturing The Friedmans, go rent it. You don’t need this particular copy. And what’s with asking to borrow porn? You can give away porn because you’re sick of it, but borrowing porn is like taking a magazine out of someone’s bathroom. It’s rude and gross.

Now, it is occasionally permitted to borrow money from close friends when you’re really, really fucked, but don’t make it a habit. If you are in-between jobs but usually are doing pretty good for cash you can ask someone very close to help you out, but you have to pay it back within the month and you have to buy them dinner.

DOs & DON’Ts—Friends in bands

Do not call the band who you say you are friends with and try to get on the list two hours before the show. If they are in town and they are really friends with you, they will have already put you on the list.

If you are trying to get on a list, always offer to be on the pay list so it shows you really want to see the show and are not a shitty mooch. At least offer to support your friend’s band.

If your friend is having a benefit concert do not ask to be on the list. Especially if it’s to raise money for her cancer treatment.

If you are put on the guest list, do not blow off the show. It’s not cool and the band will find out.

DOs & DON’TS—Being a straight shooter

This cuts both ways. You can neither be a pussy nor let your friend be a pussy.

The first goal is easily accomplished. Just don’t take things personally. Nothing that anybody ever says to you is really about you. It’s about them and whatever weird shit is in their head. This can be a bummer when someone says, “I love you,” and you know what they are really saying is “I love the way that saying, ‘I love you’ makes me feel,” but it is a big help when some semi-friend is being a cunt to you about some weird thing that didn’t even happen.

The second part of this is harder. You have to call people out on their bullshit. Don’t be scared to do this. You never know––the person may actually appreciate it and respect you for it.

Like, if you’re pissed at your roommate for eating your leftover filet mignon, don’t hold it in and silently resent her forever. That is called being “passive aggressive” and it is the kind of thing that Jewish mums do.

Not everyone knows when you’re angry about something. They’re too absorbed in their own shit to notice you stomping around and clanging the dishes extra-hard when you’re washing them. You don’t have to yell at the person, just be like, “Dude, you’re a dick. I was totally saving that.” Then they won’t do it again. If they do, they are Xed.

DOs & DON’Ts—Dead friends

If someone asks how you are at a bar or a party, you are not allowed to reply, “Not too good. So-and-so just died.” It’s not only a bringdown—it’s also a pathetic bid for attention. If you were really broken up about it, you wouldn’t be out drinking and dancing to “Boys Don’t Cry” at 2 a.m. The simple rules for mourning are as follows:
1. Don’t go anywhere that is traditionally associated with fun until you are ready to not talk about your dead friend.
2. Don’t claim pissing rights to a dead person’s memory unless you have either spent at least 10 late nights or one weekend out of town with them, or had dinner with their parents.

DOs & DON’Ts—Ingratiating yourself to VIPs

Unless your name is Flandor, King of All Galaxies (yes, he does exist), there will always be somebody you’ll meet who is more important and popular than you. The mistake a lot of people make is thinking the best way to ingratiate themselves to such people is by calling them a bad name or being way too familiar the second time they meet them.

For example, a mutual friend will introduce you to the important person again and say something like, “You remember Joe, right?” The more important guy goes, “Hey, Joe, how are you?” and then “Joe” (you) will fuck it up by going, “I’m alright, you fucking cunt! How’s the alcoholism?” or something equally WTTTTFFFF??

Even 10 minutes of going, “I was only joking, mate,” in the bathroom later on when you’ve done too much blow will not enable you to enter that person’s friendship zone ever again. You have officially fucked it up forever and you will never be rich or popular.

DOs & DON’Ts—Just eat something

Be aware that you are a nicer person when you aren’t really hungry.

DOs & DON’Ts—Fistfights

Dear tough guys, if someone bumps into you and does not apologise, you DO NOT have to throw down. Nor do you need to fight if someone “calls you out” by asking you to step outside. Even if someone is screaming in your face you should not hit them. What’s the matter, you’re not smart enough to make fun of the guy? Oh, you’re not? OK, then the most we’ll allow is for you to spit in his face or maybe slap him—that’s it.

The only time you’re allowed to really go for it is if someone physically attacks you. Of course, this gets a little tricky when someone grabs your girl’s bum. If he’s not apologetic, then yeah, you kind of have to break the above rule and go punch him in the face. Similarly, if a female you know gets attacked by her ex-boyfriend, like if he goes over to her house and totally trashes it and throws her around, you and all your friends have to get in the car and go find him and at least break his nose. If you don’t do this, you are a woman.

DOs & DON’Ts—Public transport

If you just missed the train, make that joke where you act like you’re about to have a heart attack you’re so angry.

Also, give up your seat to very old people (“If their hair is grey, you can’t stay”), pregnant women, and the handicapped. If you do give up your seat, it is a DON’T to make eye contact with any other riders as you do it. They will think you only want them to notice how great you are. You do NOT have to get up just because somebody is a woman. They need to pay the price for liberation sometimes. Don’t act as if you’ve exited the bowels of Alcatraz and are witnessing sunlight for the first time in 20 years when arriving at the top of the steps when leaving the underground. There are people behind you who’d like to keep moving, so don’t yawn, turn on your phone, stretch or weave from side to side so no one can get past you. Additionally, don’t try to finish up that mobile phone conversation on the way into the train. You know how you love to pause on the stairs to fill someone in on how you’ll be there in 10 minutes? Take that shit somewhere else.

If you are on the train and you see one of those poor motherfuckers in a dead sprint toward the closing train doors, DO just fucking hold it for them, please. The announcer is lying: It will not delay other trains, and it’s not “safer” just to wait for the next train—the conductor isn’t going to gas it with some woman’s leg hanging out of the car. Plus it’ll give you this really cool man-over-machine triumph-type feeling.

DOs & DON’Ts—People in your neighbourhood

Don’t show off how you’re friends with everyone in the neighbourhood. It’s just not really that impressive when you make a big show of saying hello to the Chinese man who washes your underwear for pennies.

DOs & DON’Ts—Cops

All policemen are tough guys who want to fight all the time, so when Mr. Rebel Punk Wannabe Guy starts giving them the drunken “fuck the pigs” cry outside a show, it really makes their day. Usually you’re doing it to prove to a girl that behind the freshly bought Ramones T-shirt beats an insurrectionary heart. But when you yell at cops, they will arrest you, beat you up in the van, humiliate you, and make you sit in a cell with a real criminal who’ll scare the shit out of you forever. Police need to concentrate on stopping madmen from raping people and keeping thieves from stealing old ladies’ purses. Leave them alone. This also applies to bouncers and security guards. They have more important things to do than help you get mad.

DOs & DON’Ts—Racism

Don’t get all huffy and denounce somebody for racism when they are, say, watching the Olympics and state a simple fact like “Gee, blacks are faster sprinters than whites.”

DOs & DON’Ts—Public shitting

If you smell a bad shit come out of your hole, start flushing immediately. There is no limit to the number of courtesy flushes allowed. Also, you have to give the next guy a heads-up. Because once that poor bastard goes in there after you, he can’t just come running out screaming (like he wants to), because then you’re all embarrassed and it’s a weird vibe all around the restaurant. Just a little eye roll or gesture should do the job—be subtle but clear.

DOs & DON’Ts—Eating off other people’s plates

There are not many things likely to put somebody off their food faster than when a drunken, greedy dickhead grabs a bit of food from their appetizer plate before they’ve even started it themselves. Restaurants are overpriced and the main point of them is to get people together, so sharing food off other people’s plates is often to be applauded. There is, however, nothing worse than when Mr. Porky Pig dives into your plate and pulls a sausage off without asking. I don’t care how stoned or drunk you are. Not even an arm around the shoulder and a whispered “Love you, mate” will get near making up for the emotional turmoil and stomach upset you have just caused your supposed friend.

DOs & DON’Ts—Paying

We went to a friend’s birthday dinner the other day and there were about 15 people. You know what that means? After everyone puts in their cash, the check is still going to be £250 short. You know why? Because of a group of indignant communists who care more about what the dinner can do for them than what they can do for the dinner. They just figure, “OK, I paid £11, that’s reasonable” instead of, “How much are we short, and what do we have to do to get that paid?” And what are we doing having dinner with 15 people? From now on you are only allowed to eat in groups no larger than four. If there’s five of you, then eat separately and meet at a bar later. There is a reason that restaurants tack on an automatic gratuity for parties of six or more.

DOs & DON’Ts—Tipping

If you have ever worked in the food-service industry, you must tip at least 25%. If a bartender friend gives you a free drink, give him at least a pound tip per drink and then give him an extra £5 every four drinks. That’s still only £8 for four drinks, so what’s your problem?

DOs & DON’Ts—Toothpicks

Don’t walk around with a toothpick in your mouth for an hour after a meal. Maybe there are even a few stray morsels tucked in your dental work, but society does not need proof that you had dinner. Let it go.

DOs & DON’Ts—Medicine

Don’t go to a doctor unless you have to crawl there. Operating at home is fun and easy. Never go to the dentist, either. And never take antibiotics. They are a crutch and they prevent your immune system from figuring out, and subsequently conquering, whatever the disease is. Never take your pet to the vet. If it’s sick, let it die. It’s the natural thing to do.

DOs & DON’Ts—Touching

Don’t give your coworkers backrubs. No matter how much they beg. When the rest of us look over and see it, we’re puking.

DOs & DON’Ts—Office crushes

Liking someone at work can get you through the day, but don’t make it uncomfortable for either of you. This means no staring, no extraneous contact, and no wanking in the toilets. Period. An office crush is like a bonsai tree, something to nurture slowly over time. If you do, it can reward you with years of simple joy and beauty.

DOs & DON’Ts—Meetings

Fuck meetings. They are for people who don’t like to get work done. The whole idea of everyone having to get together to “focus” and “get a general idea of what we’re trying to do” is really just an excuse for people to drown you in rhetoric. Meetings are worse than art school. If you really want to get something done then just email me:
“Subject: Want to start this project?”
“Sure.”
“Re: Sure. OK, I got all these contacts. I contacted everyone on the list. Can you book the place?”
“Yes, I can.”
And we didn’t sit in a big circle, notepads in hand, waiting for blabbermouth to finish her longwinded analogy about running a marathon. Meetings are why all the dotcommers are now serving coffee.

DOs & DON’Ts—Ageing gracefully

Thirty is a pivotal age. It is when you have to change everything overnight. If you are out at age 29 on your birthday, wearing a ratty T-shirt and drinking a beer, at midnight you will automatically morph into a guy with a Guinness in hand, casually decked out in a perfectly worn-in Brooks Brothers button-down. It’s like a werewolf in the full moon.

To get yourself ready for this transition, consider the following steps:

DOs & DON’Ts—Condoms at 30

By 30, you should be regularly fucking someone you can trust enough to go condomless without staying up all night worrying about AIDS. Birth control comes in myriad forms that don’t require one to asphyxiate their partner’s cock. Not keeping condoms around is like cutting up your credit card: without them you’ll no longer have anything to fall back upon.

DOs & DON’Ts—The newspaper at 30

There is nothing more painful than hearing someone who doesn’t know anything about politics trying to talk about current events. Now that you’re getting older, you’re going to have to do better than “Tony Blair is a liar.” Buy a fucking newspaper. You have to read at least some of the front section every day. Otherwise, you are not allowed to have opinions about anything that is in the news. To say all media is biased is a cop-out. There are two PCs: politically correct and pro-corporate. There’s a left-wing bias for things like abortion and immigration but there’s a right-wing bias when it comes to anything corporate. Get over it. There’s still tons of other pertinent information in there, even in The Times.

By the way, simply saying someone is “right wing” doesn’t count as an apt criticism. Have you ever even listened to the other side’s positions? Then shut your face. And Conservatives, do you even know anyone in the sex industry who you didn’t pay to meet? Then you shut your face, too. The terms “right wing” and “left wing” were created for baby boomers who had just given up religion and were looking for a new gang to join.

DOs & DON’Ts—Pot at 30

When you were 14, parents always had the best pot. Parents who had you call them by their first names usually had the best of the best pot. When you are the age they were then, spring for real pot every time you buy. How will you be able to afford this? Because you are smoking less grass.

Smoking grass constantly is like chain-smoking (which you’ve also stopped by now). It will make the skin on your neck look like a used condom and the corner of your eyes look like a murder of ravens tap-danced on your face. Also, you are too old to be forgetting everything. Sometime in the next few years you are going to get a phone call announcing one of your parents has died.

Your new rule of thumb for weed is to spend at least £40 a shot and make whatever that gets you last for a month.

DOs & DOs & DON’Ts — A list of DOs and DON’T

Is a stupid person’s desperate attempt to impose order on a world they feel is totally beyond their control. It is a social crutch for people too lazy and uneducated to develop any social skills.

with love and humour from Oz tVC

From viceland