Friends With Benefits / Fuck Buddies a.k.a fuck buddies. Simply put, a situation where you use each other for sex.
I've had a few of these interactions go pretty well, but they kind of happened by random chance, and ran their course...
I'm at the point where, until I meet the next person I want to date, I would rather have a 2-3 solid partners than a bunch of crappy one-night stands. I'm wondering how to approach this with new women I come across, or how to notice the signs of a woman who is in a spot where she would want this as well--maybe what traits they are looking for in the type of guy they would have this kind of arrangement with, etc.
It seems like coming off as "boyfriend material" would totally kill any interest in this type of arrangement, but it would be hard for me pretend I'm some dumb party idiot who's just good for a good .., which seems to be the type of guy that girls have no-strings-attached sex with.
Thoughts from your end ladies?
Also, these interactions tend to range from the girl being cool with just sex, to wanting to go out and do things together (which to me is not .. buddies, it's dating). Are most girls going to expect some kind of wooing, going out from time to time?
I apologize ahead of time if I come off as a total jerk. Just trying to help you help me help you.
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Family Blast Judge, DA for Heroin Dealer Stefano DeMicheli 40-year Sentence Montrose [video=youtube_share;imj7IXzFFFg]http://youtu.be/imj7IXzFFFg[/video]
Montrose residents Virginia DeMicheli and Ceresa Gonzalez, mother and sister of heroin dealer Stefano DeMicheli, react to news that the 26-year-old was sentenced to 40 years in prison after he failed a drug treatment program.
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The mother of a street-level heroin dealer sentenced to 40 years in prison lashed out at the Putnam County judge and district attorney, saying they scapegoated her son for the suburban heroin epidemic by meting out a punishment harsher than many murderers get.
“It’s like they want a feather in their caps for winning the war on drugs,” Virginia DeMicheli of Montrose told The Journal News on Thursday, a week after her 26-year-old son, Stefano, was sentenced. “I don’t think he should go unpunished. But 40 years is unfathomable. Why not arrest and make an example out of a drug dealer at the top of the chain, or the suppliers? Why go after a small town young man, one without the means to defend himself?”
She cried as she added, “He’ll be 66 years old when he comes out. I’ll never see my son again outside of jail. I’ll be dead.”
District Attorney Adam Levy made a personal appearance in November to argue for the maximum sentence to hold Stefano DeMicheli accountable for failed drug tests, missed counseling sessions and other arrests while participating in a drug treatment program.
By failing out of the judicial diversion program, Stefano DeMicheli put himself in a position to get sentenced on the felony drug conviction that put him there.
He faced up to 12 years on each of four counts for a December 2011 arrest in which police found him with 35 bags of heroin and 19 bags of crack cocaine.
On sentencing day Jan. 30, Stefano DeMicheli’s legal aid lawyer Brian Carlin told the judge that “even a sentence of 12 years would be greater than any sentence ever given out in this court.”
Assistant District Attorney Sarah Crabtree countered that Stefano DeMicheli made a mockery of the program that allows some nonviolent offenders to pursue treatment instead of jail time.
“He was selling narcotics and part of a narcotics ring while a participant in treatment court,” she said. “I did take the program seriously,” Stefano DeMicheli replied when given his chance to speak. “I never took it as a joke. This is my (life). I made a lot of mistakes. I was young, and I really regret everything that I’ve done.”
Judge James Reitz expressed his own regret that he accepted Stefano DeMicheli into the program, over the district attorney’s objections. He thanked God that the young man didn’t kill anyone before sentencing him to 10 years on each count to run consecutively. “You had an arrogance about you that you can do anything you want at any time you want and get away with it,” the judge said.
The ruling came days after three young Westchester residents died of suspected heroin overdoses, including two from the Cortlandt area where Stefano DeMicheli grew up. Then on Sunday, the heroin scourge made national headlines after actor Philip Seymour Hoffman was found dead in his Manhattan apartment, a syringe sticking from his arm.
Seizing the spotlight Monday, the Putnam district attorney touted Stefano DiMicheli’s sentence in a press release through his public relations firm.
“We applaud Judge Reitz’s decision, and hope it serves as a deterrent to others who don’t take the program seriously,” Levy said. At home in Montrose, however, Stefano DeMicheli’s mother and sister were reeling from a decision they said came as a complete surprise. They said they were never notified that there would be a sentencing Jan. 30.
The defense lawyer said during the hearing that he, too, didn’t know his client was to be sentenced that day. The prosecutor and judge, however, rejected his request for a postponement.
The family didn’t learn about the ruling until a couple days later.
“It’s overwhelming to me, shocking, unbelievable,” said Virginia DeMicheli, a nurse at Maria Fareri Children’s Hospital. “People who commit murder, rape and manslaughter are out walking the streets in a matter of years.”
Adele Bernhard, a professor at New York Law School who served on a national task force that researched drug courts, agreed that “it’s probably a pretty extreme sentence.”
“There’s nothing really to show he was some big-time dealer who was conspiring with the Cali cartel,” Bernhard said.
Stefano DeMicheli’s family describe him as a loyal, loving and family-oriented young man who’s made many bad decisions. They don’t deny that he peddled heroin or abused drugs, but note that he has not been connected to any heroin overdose deaths.
“They’re abusing their power to make an example of him,” said his sister, Ceresa Gonzalez, 32. “I resent the implication that his drug sales are directly linked to the deaths. There’s no way to know that, and it wasn’t ever part of the case.”
They also said he made a sincere effort in the drug treatment program.
But his problems went well beyond that. Prosecutors noted that by the time he entered the program in 2012, Stefano DeMicheli had already been charged with 38 offenses, including 29 felonies.
Then in March, Westchester County police and federal authorities arrested him at his family’s home and seized a loaded gun that, according to law enforcement sources, was believed to have been used in a drug-related shooting. The arrest was part of an investigation into crack and heroin sales in Peekskill.
On Wednesday, Stefano DeMicheli phoned his mother from the Westchester County jail. “He’s devastated, he’s really scared,” Virginia DeMicheli said. “He said, ‘Mom, I need help. I know I’ve done things wrong, but I don’t deserve this.’ ”
Looking for new friends with similar interests… Hey peeps. I live in Los Angeles and have had my ups and downs in this world throughout the years. Very long interesting story that I would find interesting (if it wasn't me lol). Anyway, just looking to meet some new people. Maybe some people in my area that I know won't judge me for my way of living. Hopefully I found the spot to do so.
Looking for friends in Los Angeles… Hey peeps, just wondering if there are people here in socal. Basically, I'm tired of the people that call themselves friends so basically I'm deleting them and starting over lol. Not really because that would be pathetic in a way. Seriously, I am interested people relatively close by to get to know better. The scene is so strange at times that it's almost impossible to find a person who can pass as normal. Anyway, reply here or pm me. Hope to talk to anyone new soon!
How many of you were friends first? A question for all of you out there:
How many of you have had relationships where you either were not attracted at first and/or were friends with before you became romantically involved?
Boyfriends best friend sends him naked pictures of girls I don't really know where to post this and don't want to talk to any of my friends about this so here goesBf and I are together almost 5 years, bought a house, have a puppy and are Ttc.
We are generally very happy together. He has always wanted to have sex less then I have and I'm usually pretty okay with that. He also a little more vanilla then I am, which I can deal with. A little while ago, I looked at a text conversation from his bet friend(yes I know I shouldn't have) and saw that his best friend constantly sends him pictures of half naked and naked girls.
Some his best frien knows and some are just from the Internet. I also saw that they were both writing really crude things about what they wanted to do to the women as well. We have had a really difficult year (nothing to do with is, in fact the things that happened made us want the house and baby together) and I have definitely gained some weight.
I have never been small, but have always been considered quite attractive. He has never said those types of things to me, nothing even close. Seeing those pictures and the conversation between them has made me feel really insecure and disrespected.
Am I being sensitive or is this something I should be worried about?
I know men look at other women all the time, I guess it's the things he says that bugs me is the things he writes. Things he has never said about or to me
