@marmy1258 598643 wrote:
I am a 27yr old straight Male. I have a had a couple ofrelationships in the past but have been single for over two years now
I recently went on a night out with friends and we were all very drunk and we all ended up back in my place.
I eventually went to bed and my Male (gay) friend followed me into bed (This is a usual occurrence, me and friends would always sleep in same beds together)
So this time he started to touch me and i didnt stop him i just wait till he finished me and then went to sleep.
A few weeks later the same thing happened.
I never have had sexual fantasies about men or ever been interested in men and dont consider myself gay i am just incredibly horny and love getting off so that is why i dont stop him. We just act like nothing has happened and there is no weirdness between us which is good but im just curious to see if you think this is ok/normal
If it is a reoccurring thing and i dont stop it what does that mean?
I think you are a normal and healthy 27 year old man who is straight. You have never had homosexual fantasies or engaged in mutual sexual behavior (as in your friend touched you but you did not return, from what I understand) but you are still turned on when someone you know is making advances that make you feel good. I think that’s normal. Take it from a bisexual female, I believe you are simply at a crossroads in your life and are having some difficulty finding someone you can be passionate with. You should not feel ashamed by what your gay friend is doing and you not stopping the behavior. If I may offer some advice; if you don’t watch porn, consider trying it. I’m being completely serious and not trolling. Porn can open up your mind and help you with your sexual frustration, even I watch porn sometimes. It’s only natural to feel good when you have been in a “dry desert” for a while. If the behavior becomes too much or too weird, I’m sure your friend will understand if you ask him to stop.
Point being: you are not gay or bisexual by feeling good and getting off when this happens. Relax and take it in strides man.
