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I can imagine, messed up moments like those don’t help do they…

nope ^_^

betcha you’d like to cheat now:rolleyes::rolleyes:

Thought i’d start by first saying hi all xx

Personnal i’ve never cheated and probally never will… i say probally as nothings 100%… and you never know, i’ve still got a good few years to mess up in but realistically…

Is there really any point?… and if so? is it for a selfish reason?… and who does it benefit? for how long and come on girls… lucky if it’s more than 5 mins…
I so know that someones going to respond saying they’ve got a man that goes all night and my only responce is… well babe, best hope i don’t meet him xx :bigsmile:

Is there any point iin cheating purly because the eventually out come will lead to someone getting hurt and others lying…
And when it’s as easy as sending a text to break up, is it worth putting yourself in a situation where your in the wrong?

Just hearing and seeing others making that chioce and seeing the upset, confusion and hurt caused… damn it would deverstate me to do that to anyone.

But then if it was ever done to me… and i know double standards… the male female thing… what ever!

I do think that women as a whole that it different… it wouldn’t be the fact that someone cheated… it would be the fact that they tried to lie to hide it… and more of them with holding information that the other person should know to be able to make the right chioce for them and there lifes…? But then… i don’t know.. that is coming from someone that doesn’t do relationships… way over my head!

NO RELATIONSHIPS

Well it’s a personnal chioce i’ve made for myself for reasons almost like a path of life i want to follow or create…

Being honest… I’m not relationship material and i just wouldn’t put the effort or time in that it take to have a happy and peaceful relationship…

I do see the pros in relationships… like comfort, closeness/ warmth etc.. but i also see the cons…

And as i said… i’ve decided that i’m not that type…
Especially when i can pick and choose which parts i want and which i don’t…
I’m not one to deal with dramas… problems yes, dramas no… so in not having a relationship with someone i don’t need to take notice or consider what they think before deciding what i want to do… especially if it’s upsetting or effecting them in some way.. i.e there emotions or deciding to go out with the girls instead of staying in!…

Bottom line is i’m very selfish and i don’t like to compromise…
I found away of not getting stucked in a situation where i have to.

I was cheated on in both my long term relationships, after being faithful to someone for 9 & 7 years it makes you wonder wtf, especially when they disrespect you by going with your mates. I guess it sorta helped knowing that they both wanted me back, as the grass wasn’t greener on the other side, but yeah sod that i was so outta there. I wouldn’t like to think i would be able to cheat on someone, cause people do change and fall out of love but i think i would give them the respect and finish with them first before moving on. I’m a pretty open minded person and love sex but the thought that my partner wouldn’t be able to approach me to let me know they were contemplating on being with another person is beyond me. Being single and having fun for now suits me, sod being tied down by jealous people. I aint a jealous person and hope i never will be.