triix wrote:
thanx, yeah i did, he did threaten me, more verbally than anything else and hit me once. Once was enough, i finished him after that glad i did now! hes just had this outburst about seven years later!! im chuffed, that could of been me he had beaten to a pulp!
you did the right thing there and got out
there should be no tolerance whatsoever for controlling/lying/predatory behaviour in relationships.
Sadly a lot of cheats are also bullies as well, both to their partners and also to others they can overpower (you will often find these types go down not just for domestic violence but also for deceptions which turns into violent robbery when someone stands up to them)
it is not manly, it is fucking pathetic and something which must be purged from our so-called “liberal Western society” before we have the right to call ourselves that.
I hope it doesn’t affect the way you look at other potentially decent blokes though. I meet far too many girls these days who have been messed around by previous men (often at a young age) and their trust/self-esteem has been so destroyed that all their future relationships never last..
also I get the impression some lads today (not all though) have the same attitude to girls as my fathers generation did – as if womens emancipation never happened or has been slapped down by a 90s post-modernist backlash…
