Have You Ever Cheated on a Partner?
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June 6, 2006 at 8:06 pm #719021triix wrote:exactly! put it this way, it hasnt done me any favours!
i agree with you on that; its done no one i know any:rant::rant:June 6, 2006 at 9:03 pm #719042
I’ve always been faithvel to my loved ones.:horay:June 6, 2006 at 9:16 pm #719022scifiphoto wrote:I’ve always been faithvel to my loved ones.:horay:
:alien_abd i only two-timed a person once and that was to take up with the person i am still with now 12 years later; as soon as i could i finished the previous relationship so as not to be in that position :alien_abdJune 7, 2006 at 12:37 pm #718986General LightingModeratortriix wrote:thanx, yeah i did, he did threaten me, more verbally than anything else and hit me once. Once was enough, i finished him after that glad i did now! hes just had this outburst about seven years later!! im chuffed, that could of been me he had beaten to a pulp!
you did the right thing there and got out
there should be no tolerance whatsoever for controlling/lying/predatory behaviour in relationships.
Sadly a lot of cheats are also bullies as well, both to their partners and also to others they can overpower (you will often find these types go down not just for domestic violence but also for deceptions which turns into violent robbery when someone stands up to them)
it is not manly, it is fucking pathetic and something which must be purged from our so-called “liberal Western society” before we have the right to call ourselves that.
I hope it doesn’t affect the way you look at other potentially decent blokes though. I meet far too many girls these days who have been messed around by previous men (often at a young age) and their trust/self-esteem has been so destroyed that all their future relationships never last..
also I get the impression some lads today (not all though) have the same attitude to girls as my fathers generation did – as if womens emancipation never happened or has been slapped down by a 90s post-modernist backlash…June 29, 2006 at 11:20 am #719049
i was with one lad for almost 18 months and towards the end he got to be a propa bag pill-head – like 20 a night, so i went off him and got with like 4 different lads towards the end of going out with him, i know it was wrong and i wont do it again with ma current bf xAugust 20, 2006 at 11:27 pm #71905120lauren06 wrote:i was with one lad for almost 18 months and towards the end he got to be a propa bag pill-head – like 20 a night, so i went off him and got with like 4 different lads towards the end of going out with him, i know it was wrong and i wont do it again with ma current bf x
20 a night- he wont last long anyway- thought I was bad
Only cheated once and that was on holiday so doesn’t count:groucho:
No, I got back and felt real bad and never did it againAugust 22, 2006 at 6:30 pm #718930Anonymous
hey. I cheated on my ex once, she was in NZ and had been away for 6 out of the 7 months she was away for. Thats the reason shes my ex. I felt and sum times still feel like a twat. :hopeless:September 14, 2006 at 5:35 pm #719048
I never cheated on my parteners. Although i broke up with my ex after six years in march after i found out she’d been cheating on me for a while! I’ve never felt so shitty:cry:October 13, 2006 at 12:11 pm #719054
only ever cheeted once and that was because i was pissed and had cyber sex with another lad i was out of my head though and i don’t think cyber sex counts as chaeting dose it?:weee:
memeOctober 13, 2006 at 4:20 pm #719055
would never cheat on my bf!
i love him too much!
but if he cheated on me i would not be sure if i could forgive him!
xOctober 14, 2006 at 12:16 pm #719052
Yep… I’ve cheated on ma x parners… boyfriends and girlfriends,.. some deserved it… I guess the reason I did it was because I didn’t really like them…October 14, 2006 at 2:53 pm #719023Insanity wrote:Yep… I’ve cheated on ma x parners… boyfriends and girlfriends,.. some deserved it… I guess the reason I did it was because I didn’t really like them…
then why on earth were you with them? :crazy::crazy:October 15, 2006 at 1:31 pm #719050Shit RobotParticipant
No!!October 15, 2006 at 1:53 pm #719056
i see it as you would not like it done to you so why should you do it to them!October 16, 2006 at 2:16 pm #719024freespirited wrote:i see it as you would not like it done to you so why should you do it to them!
I agree wholeheartedly :bounce_fl:bounce_fl:bounce_fl
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