People cheat for a few different reasons…
Usually selfish reasons… they go on to lie about it.. for more selfish reasons!…
The over all point is that they want what they want and they don’t care who they hurt as they are thinking about their self’s needs…
I say don’t care because if they did… Well i don’t know, i’ve already stated that i don’t do relationships but come on now…
How could you forget that you have a partner????… ain’t washing…
Some just want out of a realtionship, they haven’t fully considered why or if it’s an actually relationship/ partner issue… that are making them feel that way.. this is the:- The grass is green syndrome…
Yeah… you’ve all heard of it… bloody amusing! Purely as i hope you all know, thats never the case…would be nice if it was but it’s just a trap… and an added complication, but i’ll tell you what if i ever shame myself by falling in that hole, then i would admit it… Damn.. you guy’s would be the first to know… can’t say better than that!
But then i suppose that if a relationship is going bad… cheating partner has personnal/ issues that need to be communicated… I suppose the harder they find it to discuss something ie their concerns or something or possibly everything with their partner… that situation might send them looking or becoming attracted to someone thats more attentive in the areas that there lacking from their partner at that time..
And at that point i suppose it’s where things could seem greener… but take my advice,… resort to just smoking it… leads to a peaceful life.
But i also thik that at the point of the cheating… the cheater has some sort of issue that they can’t or won’t for some reason communicate in words or actions… The trigger…
Because unless someone is cheating from the start of the relationship then is wouldn’t be a standard behaviour pattern for that person.. so possible something would of had to of trigger the cheating reaction?
Women can be difficult to talk to at times but then again, when men are spoken to they don’t always try to understand… instead, most men like brushing problems under the carpet and forgetting… problem is, women never forget… and the longer either partner is feeling something is up that communication is failing over, i just see an issue like that starting to create a negative reaction towards and from the partner…
Isn’t it just really bugging when you know 100% that someone isn’t telling you something or everything?… or things just arn’t adding up…?
But i am only speaking about a standard relationship… nothing with if and but’s…
Suppose some people react instantly or without thinking to their emotions…
Where as others would take time out to consider their emotions and what they really feel…
A problems only as big as the parts that you take into consideration.
But bringing my thoughts to an end.. realistically any one can do what they choose to do even if that means they are going to emotionally hurt someone else… adding lies to the mixture!…
Ask your self one question.. is that really the type of person you want in your life or to share you life with?
Someone that lies and cheats?… now sugar!…. thats one deal that anyone should be over the moon in turning down xx Just think liability!!! XX
