I cant cheat when its come to sexual relations because I would never put my self in that situation of making promises I might cannot keep in the heat of the night….for me cheating is much more than where I put my dick. As far I see this is a sexual dogma that comes from christianity, FUCK that! I look at this as punishment… Things happens when fingers touch and bodies meets that aint allways to be controlled… Cheating for me is when you start to plan things with others than your partner. Then it is time to pull back a have look at what you got.
All this is experince from my life ….I have been married and fooled around, but my next girlfriend I made it clear from the start that I wont make this promise to not to jump in the bed with others, she gave me that freedom, the strange thing was, I never used it…
So you might look at it as symtom of sumtin might need to be fixed when you start to fool around, then again others get inspiration that way, the french thinks its natural….
The animal world do not give a good answer to whats natural either, just look at seagulls and dowes, some pair for life, others jump around and others again jumps around and stick with same partner anyway…
So it all comes down to personality and honesty. Be clear from the start, whats the outer limits of what you can live and prosper with. It has to be a balance in there somewhere or the partnairship is just bullshit.
But most of all; the freedom you claim, have to be free to others as well.
Then again as life passes you might get other answers, nobody said it was easy, ehh?:weee:
