Maybe it’s clit play.
For me, as a woman, I don’t use dildos or focus on penetration. I just don’t feel anything pleasurable. I masturbate, but my clit gets all the attention, and there’s no release without stimulation of it, or the G spot.
Also, usually women are a bit different. They have many erogenous zones on their body that men neglect. Now again, this is usually. Some women are exceptions and just do not feel anything from sex. But try the zones 1st.
Basic places that your wife may like you to kiss, lick, nibble, touch, etc.
1. Ears
2. Neck
3. Breasts
4. Clit
5. G Spot
6. Thighs
7. Ass cheeks
8. Arms
9. Lower parts of legs
Maybe she may even like her toes, or fingers sucked and/or licked.
Maybe she’s a woman that needs it sensual with tons of foreplay and attention to other parts of her body before anything “down below” will feel good. So, penetration should be the finisher after she’s already be worked up and gotten really hot. I think I am like that. Penetration thus far is not a favorite of my for sex. Everything else I prefer before it.
This may not work, but it’s worth a shot. This is all I could say. if you tried it, or try it, and it doesn’t work, she just may be a woman that gets no pleasure from sex. Sadly some are like that. And she may need medication to assist with it.
Maybe try some porn. Watch together and see if she can get any ideas. Roleplay, bondage, etc.
If all else fails, she may need some pills. If that doesn’t work, or she doesn’t want to try them, you have 3 options.
1. Live in a sexless marriage–some do it.
2. Divorce her and meet someone else
3. Ask her if she’d let you go to other women and get sex outside of the marriage. Some women and men have done that.
