How to deal with being taken advantage of?
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February 1, 2013 at 2:10 am #784458
I haven’t bothered to read any of op’s post, but what is the summary? He’s a necrophilliac or does he like Quadraplegic transgender midget hookers?March 6, 2013 at 4:48 pm #784451Anonymous
Geez, if I believe this story (which I find very hard to) how on earth you both agreed to this and say you were pressured? I mean, you being the guy saying that they should ask her. Naivety is the mother of all sins and you guys proved this. You certainly were taken advantage of but you must share a huge blame. Twice, she had sex with her and you sat there like that was the most normal thing in the world. the bloke popped her cherry and you didn’t. all you can do is learn from this.March 6, 2013 at 8:05 pm #784464
Well, this is weird.March 6, 2013 at 9:03 pm #784466
and he didn’t even ask to bang that guys wife.March 7, 2013 at 12:32 am #784468
@Alestar 473266 wrote:
My girlfriend and I had a very unfortunate episode, and I need advice. She lives in an island community, and we’ve been together for three months. Up until recently she was a virgin, while I’ve had sex before.
When visiting her home, we were invited by a couple in their 40’s for dinner. Since it was some distance to their house, we were offered to sleep over. They proved to be a hippie like couple, living in a big house with a garden. The dinner was pleasant enough, we were wined and dined, while they were asking us a lot of questions about our background and future plans.
We were given a tour around their property, and the evening we sat in their couch and got drinks. At this point, we’d both gotten quite drunk, but not wasted. Then they started asking sexual questions, and soon found out that my gf was a virgin, and that she’d just started on the pill in preparation to have sex. They started talking about how the first time can be painful for the girl, and the wife suggested that her husband have sex with my girlfriend to make our first time easier.
At first I thought it was a joke, and thought nothing of it. But after a while they asked if we had thought about their offer. I told them that they should ask her, which they did. They put a lot of pressure on her, telling her how it would be fun, how it would be easier this way, that she shouldn’t be a prude at 18, and finally she agreed. In preparation they start making one of the couches ready, and she went away to pee. At this point I was in a state of shock, and couldn’t bring myself to do anything.
So my girlfriend got back, and the wife sits down at the end of the couch with me to soothe me. He puts his penis in her mouth, undresses her, and goes down on her. When he starts going on top of her, I ask if they aren’t going to use a condom at least. He tells me straight out that he wants to enjoy the feeling as much as possible.
The intercourse wasn’t brutal or anything. She comes with a single “ow” when he gets in, and the wife holds me as he moves inside her. He stops several times to ask how she’s doing. After a while he stops to cum inside her.
There’s only a little blood. The wife gives us drinks to “celebrate.” My girlfriend gets a mirror so she can see the changes down there. The guy claims that the hymen has been pushed aside, but not completely destroyed, and wants another go. When he’s ready, he starts having sex with her again. This time it’s harder, and it takes over an hour before he is done again. It’s over, and my girlfriend gets her clothes on.
The rest of the night was really awkward. I try to pretend as if nothing’s happened, while the guy keeps telling me how he helped me out and all that. The wife is giggly and makes comments, while my girlfriend tries to keep her dignity by being aloof.
When we finally go to bed, we have sex together. After what’s being going on, it’s a bit fishy down there, and I’m basically sticking it in another guy’s sloppy seconds. The following morning we are given breakfast, and are thanked for the visit before being taken back. They agree we all should be discrete about the whole thing.
Now, my girlfriend says she didn’t exactly want this to happen, but she was kind of forced into it in the heat of the moment. Neither of us had the authority or the will to just say no. The results were a humiliating experience for both of us. Her having her private parts violated, and I having to see another guy do that to her.
It’s obvious this was some kind of sex game for them, and unfortunately we got caught in it. But how should we deal with it? Should we consider this abuse, although we won’t exactly file rape charges or anything, or should we just see this as something that just happened?
I really hope this is a fucking joke….if i were you i would take a gun to this bitchs house and make sure he never does anything like this again…. I am super pissed…. i dont know how you couldnt say or do anything
There had to be apart of the whole thing Were you wanted it to happen like you loved the idea of it…. WTF man that guy just had sex with your girlfriend…. wtf….September 19, 2014 at 6:40 am #784470
“yeah babe i love you but you can make love to this 40 year old man while i watch and willow in sadness”September 19, 2014 at 6:41 am #784471
@Tank Girl 473507 wrote:
Sorry …. but what the fuck??
Do women not have a voice of their own??
I know this is prob spam – but your response – *If your gonna let your woman* – what about her choice??
I wrote earlier if (this is real) I’d imagine a guy would ‘intervene’ if their woman was distressed / struggling ,
…………………… but no man has the right to choose what a woman decides to do or not !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ………
my women get no choiceSeptember 20, 2014 at 1:57 am #784469Digital BuddhaParticipant
obvious troll, but i’m so glad this shit got bumped, i know what i’m going to try and do when i’m 50.
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