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September 30, 2014 at 7:42 am

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sassyAqua

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Hi, new here… I have this problem although some people might say I should be happy with what I have, but I’m not.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, in the first 6 months our sex life was great, but its starting to lag and its boring me.
The only time we have sex now is mostly on weekends, midnight or early morning quickies and rarely we have a porn and poppers night, which I don’t like at all. When I do start to initiate sex its always no or he’s tired or too busy with something on his pc. I completely stopped initiating sex for fear of constantly being rejected. I myself have a very high libido and need to have sex so I can function properly. I would never cheat and masturbation can only do so much.
I really need some advice on how to seduce him and make sure we can have sex on a regular basis. Please help
September 30, 2014 at 2:57 pm

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Bling

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Well … sounds complicated,

ever tried to talk with him about that?
talking helps alot, maybe he did not know that there is something wrong?
September 30, 2014 at 3:27 pm

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sassyAqua

@sassyaqua

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Talking leads to fighting
September 30, 2014 at 4:41 pm

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Angel

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write him a mail and leave. Let him think in peace.

don’t attack him or whatever.

You say you fight when you try to talk, and even if I feel sorry for you, I don’t know how you talk to him that make him react like that.

If you bite his head off or accuse him of being whatever i would get pissed too!
September 30, 2014 at 4:59 pm

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sassyAqua

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That’s just it, I don’t attack him because I know that’s the wrong way of approaching the subject. Biting his head off would certainly not work, this is a very sensitive subject and I’m scared of taking it too far. He really works hard and away from hom most nights a week so I completely understand if he’s tired. So I try to bring the subject up at other times, quite subtly but it always ends up in strong words
September 30, 2014 at 5:07 pm

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sassyAqua

@sassyaqua

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I don’t even know how to start a mail without saying something I don’t mean
September 30, 2014 at 6:31 pm

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jwhyatt

@jwhyatt

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To be honest. It sounds like you are in the wrong relationship. That or you need to talk about having an open relationship so that you can get the attention you deserve. I can’t be in a relationship with someone if I can’t be physical with them. Whether that be having sex, cuddling, just touching them, or anything of that sort. I really enjoy the female form and body and sex is my favorite thing. Just think about your future and yourself first. This life is all about you and not what someone else wants because in the end it’s going to be your life that you lived, not his or anyone else’s. I hope this helped.
September 30, 2014 at 6:46 pm

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sassyAqua

@sassyaqua

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It did thanks, I’m giving this another shot, to do whatever it takes to get and hold his attention. My pornstar is in there somewhere, I just need to find him
September 30, 2014 at 7:02 pm

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jwhyatt

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Good luck! Relationships take work so just stick at it until you make some headway.
September 30, 2014 at 7:04 pm

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sassyAqua

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Thank you jwhyatt.
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