Love this girl, but…
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January 22, 2014 at 8:38 pm #781975AngelModerator
@dubaicompanion 556062 wrote:
Get on with the rest of your life.
I agree, if sex’s that crap it’s not worth it.
If she can’t please you just for your sake sometimes, then wtf
I don’t like sex when I have my period, i think it’s disgusting, but if bf still want sex he get what I know he want, no questions asked.
give and take, right?January 23, 2014 at 11:08 am #781970lizbethParticipant
Tough one.January 23, 2014 at 5:29 pm #781976March 31, 2014 at 8:08 pm #781972
its a tricky one but it cant go on like that, eventually youll look elsewhere or wont be able to reject another girl if she puts it on you. shes clearly selfish in the sack n cant see that relationships are demanding. have a serious word in the hope she listens, if not its pornhub, blow up dolls or the elbow.
all the best! …have you asked her to try viagra for women? easy enuff o get.May 13, 2014 at 11:12 am #781973
Really. I’ve only tasted a load of cum twice but it wasn’t *that* badDecember 30, 2014 at 7:28 am #781974
Try something new during sex and talk with her why she has no more interest??August 1, 2015 at 12:10 am #781977slimshifty217Participant
I can understand how you would be feeling about the rejection thing. when i was dating in high school, most the guys i was with were all about the sex and i wasn’t ready maturity-wise to do that (not to mention high school guys to me always acted like if they could get some ass that’s all that mattered). so i ended up leaving a lot of my boyfriends because i know that that was what they wanted and i wasn’t ready so i could not give them what they thought they needed.
take it from a female’s standpoint: we’re typically looked at as being rigid or not liking sex at all when in fact, we love sex just as much as anybody else. maybe she wants to work on your relationship WITHOUT sex being involved – that being said, she needs to realize that you have specific needs to be met as well. all relationships SHOULD be equal partners getting the best out of relationship itself; helping each other out and that sort of thing. but there are no 2 girls that are the same as there are no 2 boys that are the same.
take it from my POV: i love guys, i love girls. i’m bisexual – that doesn’t mean i will hump anything that moves…but that also doesn’t mean i’m all about the sex. i want to have a healthy relationship with sex and to be able to have fun. i’m 24 yrs old, i have a lot of time left on this earth (hopefully) and i haven’t had legit sex since august 2013? ish. have i missed it? HELL YEA! would i go blow a goat on the internet for all to see because i need to get off? no. now is the time to either jump ship or upgrade to the captain’s position. as a man, you automatically feel that you should be the one in the relationship to support everyone else. this simply isn’t true. you’re just as liable as she is.
i definitely think that you guys should discuss the issue before it goes to the point of no one speaking and being bored/miserable. she is not the only one who needs to get off – you have a say in this. sometimes women like it when you put your foot down and say that you need to have sex a little more often than you do. if she doesnt like it – tough. she’s welcome to walk out. i hate to be so cut and dry and i can tell that you really like her but sometimes, loving someone the best way is to let them go. sounds cheesy but it’s true.
i’m not saying leave her right now, i am encouraging you to bring this up and speak privately with her. depending on how she reacts to this topic, you will know whether or not to stay.August 17, 2015 at 4:31 pm #781978
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