I am frustrated. I have been in a relationship, for 2 years, it started as a sex affair. So everything was great, lots of sex and fun. Then we fell in love and it was perfect. But only 1 month later he started rejecting me. In the end we had sex maybe once in two weeks. That is not enough for me. He didn’t understand. I tried to just go with it and was hoping it would get better or I could change/accept. Anyway, the relationship ended two years later.
Then I met my current boyfriend. We were friends and talked about our last relationships. We found out, that we both wanted more sex of our partners. We felt connected and could understand each other. That felt amazing. He said, he couldn’t understand how a man wouldn’t want to have sex with me, as I was so sweet and sexy.
And there we are now: We have been a couple for about two years and are still happy together, but I am always the one who seduces him or generally starts with sex. He often says he doesn’t feel like it. I would be happy with 2-3 times a week, but for him it is too much. Quite often I find myself playing with my toys while my boyfriend is watching tv. 🙁
How comes, that men always tell you, they wouldn’t say no, but then they do anyway…
I don’t believe that anymore. I can just laugh about posts and chats where men say, I could fuck everyday. Because they simply just cannot!!!!!
Or are there any girls who can prove me wrong?
