I’m dating a guy who’s 23. I’m 20. We’ve dated in the past but I suffered from a breakdown and I cut off all contact with him and lots of people as it’s what I needed at the time – I hate that I did that. But I was suffering quite badly with PTSD from an abusive relationship during teenage years.
anyway that’s not the point, I’m not really sure how to approach him on the subject of sex and such things? We’re long distance so we’ve never done anything. But he’s coming to stay at mine this weekend….
I want to speak to him about whether or not he feels ready for that step of things, he’s a Virgin… And I respect that as I didn’t get the choice over the person who took my virginity and I wish I did.
I feel like I’m damaged or used goods and he’s just not going to be interested in me in that sense… I know him being 23 and a virgin would make some people think WTF but he was religious and believed in no sex till after marriage but he now says he doesn’t believe that and he classes himself as non religious.
I want to respect him as a person and what not but do guys cherish virginity in a way that girls do?…
is he going to want to talk about the subject or just get in bed ? Lol
Obviously goes without saying I want to sleep with him. But what do I do about this? The only virgin I’ve slept with stole my virginity (i didn’t give consent to the sex) gah someone tell me what to do!?!? I feel like a teenager again not knowing these kinds of things.
