Met a girl who rejected a subtle but sincere intereset on my part in favor of another guy. We work together so I see her and the other guy every day. (I know, I know…never date at work! I learned the hard way.) It’s been a year and now this girl comes to me saying this guy is a zero and wanted to know if I still care? I did, but I said no and changed the subject sort of closing the issue without giving her a chance to explain. She seemed surprisingly quite upset by this. Was I wrong not to give her a chance to explain?
Before you answer, here’s a little more info. When she declined, she went around the office telling some girls I was too short (5’9″ she is 5’7″) and making a joke out of the fact that I had a crush on her in front of myself, the other guy and other co-workers. He continued to cut me down in front of of her. She wasn’t bothered by this at all. Later, when she wasn’t around he came to my office and said, “I screwed her and there is nothing you can do about it?” just to stroke his ego. Both like to use sexual inuendo a lot. He lives with another girl that is the father of his two girls. Although they are not married they they have lived together for many years, share expenses and he calls her his wife. He later says they have a ‘special arrangement’ so he can date other women.
I’d say fuck her off or just fuck her bro, if she seems like a nice pie you want your finger in or even to have fun with you have every right to ‘screw her and there’s nothing her ex can do about it, you smug wanker NER NAH’…
Right about the short thing with people I fancy who I know well or just in general I will take the piss out of them a lot, so maybe she was just fucking about and you took it to heart and need to man up and stop dwelling on it being a pussy or maybe she was actually out of order and you’re the only one who can truly know this so really you need to work that out… if you think she’s a real dick and may repeat shit like this like even if you broke up then why bother…?
personally though it seems like you like her, certainly enough to have short term relations with to satisfy some hunger and to me seems like you fully deserve to be the driver in this relationship and can stop the car any time you choose as long as you don’t drive her too far away from home or crash hideously though a small crash sounds fair IMO…
Anyway sounds like you put her in her place anyway, you may of fucked it possibly? or have to work a tiny bit to get her to not pretend she doesn’t like you but if you truly like her just go for it.
i to would tell her to fuck right off. to have the cheek to do that in the office with people you work with is just belittling, if she can just sit by and watch someone else cut into you without doing nothing then she’s no good for you mate! sounds like she loves attention even if it means someone else is getting hurt. all in all don’t touch that with a barge poll if your looking for more than sex but if she is bang tidy and you just fancy a shag then go for it! maybe you could even get a little revenge for her being a knob to you, personally i would suggest giving her a angry pirate, i did it to my ex after we broke up and i can honestly say it was one of the greatest moments in my life!
i to would tell her to fuck right off.personally i would suggest giving her a angry pirate, i did it to my ex after we broke up and i can honestly say it was one of the greatest moments in my life!
Angry pirate is for mild agitation. If she’s hurt you give her a pink sock. She won’t fuck with you again after that lol
You can give her a second chance and see has she really changed.. Also don’t take her seriously. See if she will take advantage of the second chance or not.
