I’d just like some clarity on this, no biggie.
I met this guy about 7months ago. We went on a couple of dates together, slept together, etc. Then it sort of fizzled out because we were both quite busy.
Fast forward to September and he contacted me again, asking if he could come over. Since we hadn’t interacted in a while and there was nothing else implied, I assume we were just FBs and went with that.
Last month he quit his job and when he came over he wanted to talk. He told me about the situation surrounding his resignation and asked me what I thought he should do. I gave him the best advice I could. He asked to spend the night. Again, I thought it was no big deal.
He’s been messaging me a lot more since then, just asking how my day was, chatting, etc. He wants to be a chef and keeps telling me how much
he’d like to cook for me. He wants to spend Christmas together, too.
What do you think? Is this guy trying to go for more or what? I don’t really mind either way, but since I know he’s pretty shy, I don’t think he’ll be straight with me about his intentions. Should I just ride it out and see what happens, or try to take some initiative myself?
Basically I’d like to know how you guys might handle this situation.
