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July 26, 2015 at 10:33 pm

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danyel

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All other people are out enjoying summer, going every day on pool or sea and i am all the summer again in my room, like every year. I cant go nowhere, because i have no friends. I am not equal to others, because i didnt have all those things in past (vacations with friends, swimming in pool or sea, trips, sex, friends) that for others are normal. How can i live with this? It hurts too much… And now i cant be on the level of others anymore… people dont realize how happy they can be for all those things they had in youth. I had nothing.
July 26, 2015 at 11:10 pm

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tryptameanie

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Hey man consider yourself lucky 🙂

If you had a wife you would understand what true fucking misery is really like 😀
July 27, 2015 at 7:09 am

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EPICLULZ

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@danyel 967135 wrote:

All other people are out enjoying summer, going every day on pool or sea and i am all the summer again in my room, like every year. I cant go nowhere, because i have no friends. I am not equal to others, because i didnt have all those things in past (vacations with friends, swimming in pool or sea, trips, sex, friends) that for others are normal. How can i live with this? It hurts too much… And now i cant be on the level of others anymore… people dont realize how happy they can be for all those things they had in youth. I had nothing.

Get yourself to the doctors, I think you might be depressed
July 28, 2015 at 1:42 am

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Mystic

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You could always find some online friends…

You sound quite cute, maybe dating or meetup sites would work wonders.
July 29, 2015 at 2:53 am

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The Psyentist

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Agree with EPICLULZ. You need to talk to someone. But what exactly makes you feel you are not equal to others? Lack of life experiences? Well, being barricaded in your room for another summer is not the way to catch-up, it’s how you get ‘left further behind’.

Trust me, I’ve been there. I’ve had depression as bad as it gets. The worst thing to do is to submit to it, very difficult but you’ve got to try remaining engaged in life
July 29, 2015 at 4:48 am

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tryptameanie

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We;l;l thankfull his depression seems to have lifted so he has returned to massively increase my lkevel of depression.
July 29, 2015 at 10:32 am

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danyel

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@The Psyentist 967290 wrote:

Agree with EPICLULZ. You need to talk to someone. But what exactly makes you feel you are not equal to others? Lack of life experiences? Well, being barricaded in your room for another summer is not the way to catch-up, it’s how you get ‘left further behind’.

I am not equal because i didnt have sex, parties, trips to sea, trips to mountains, animals…nothing what majority has. I was only in my room almost and at job. This are society norms. You need to do those things, if not, your life was worthless if you dont do what media tells you. Society has evolved, therefor we need to do those things to be worth.

I can’t do nothing now, because whatever i do, others will always win, because of their youth.
July 29, 2015 at 10:38 am

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tryptameanie

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I see that as saying you are unhappy with your life, not that something is actually wrong with you other than depressed thinking. As people say speak to a doctor mate :).
July 29, 2015 at 10:52 am

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The Psyentist

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@danyel 967335 wrote:

I am not equal because i didnt have sex, parties, trips to sea, trips to mountains, animals…nothing what majority has. I was only in my room almost and at job. This are society norms. You need to do those things, if not, your life was worthless if you dont do what media tells you. Society has evolved, therefor we need to do those things to be worth.

I can’t do nothing now, because whatever i do, others will always win, because of their youth.

And that is one of the massive flaws in modern society, people are pressured to be financially and materialistically successful. And those that don’t have the house, wife, kids, nice car, well paying job, etc. are sometimes left feeling under-accomplished.

Don’t measure your success in life on other people’s standards, if you do you will always be living in someone’s shadow rather than in your own light.
July 29, 2015 at 10:53 pm

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danyel

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We all compare ourself to others. You see what you sister, cousins, neightbours, friends have. If its something better, you want it to. And i am not talking here about some big material stuff. I am talking about the most basic free things that i compare to others. And which shows if you are same capable human as others.

Why do you think magazines write articles like: 10 places where you need to have sex, 10 positions you should try with partner, 10 places you should visit. Because this are things you need to do to have meaningful life. Because those are “unwritten” society rules. Why enjoying life is promoted in every movie? Because this is most important today. In the past women waited for men when they were at war. Now society has evolved and women needs to enjoy life and get a man with which she needs to have wild sex and which satisfy her. Its called evolution. We need to get joy whenever we can, not sacrifice for nothing like people did in past. Things change.

What the hell should i talk with a normal girl, which had normal past? I am only in my room last months staring at wall…what have i to talk with normal women? About problems you cant. Hobbies is 5 min. About past experiences i have nothing. I am empty. For women its easy. Its enough to look good. The difference between others and me is the same as when two doctors debate, and one is first semester and other has 15 years of experience in operations.

This weekend i could go to a party (my favourite musician), but i cant. I know how it was last time. I was crying at home all next day, because i saw how advanced others are. How they can flirt, have sex on toilets and kiss various girls all the time. Plus others talk and i have nothing to talk. There is no way out.

I was at therapy but i saw its useless. Nothing can take facts away what others all alived. What they archived compare to me in youth. And i am not a person which wants to hold my eyes down with antidepressives. Because they are nothing other then that in my case. It helps you nothing to alive things at 30, when you are not anymore so fresh and beautiful as with 18 and cant have those young fresh girls anymore.

There is no point of doing aynthing, when others had fun and sex in youth and you not 😥
July 29, 2015 at 11:05 pm

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DmanRocked

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@danyel 967335 wrote:

I am not equal because i didnt have sex, parties, trips to sea, trips to mountains, animals…nothing what majority has. I was only in my room almost and at job. This are society norms. You need to do those things, if not, your life was worthless if you dont do what media tells you. Society has evolved, therefor we need to do those things to be worth.

I can’t do nothing now, because whatever i do, others will always win, because of their youth.

Totally not true man. It honestly depends on what society you hail from, and you still have time to do all of the things you want to do, you just have to go out and do them. I honestly wish I didn’t have sex for a lot longer cause I lost my V chip when I was 15 and have been regretting it ever since. I wish I waited for somebody more special, but I was young, dumb, and full of cum. You don’t have to do everything that the rest of society does to be worth something, and in fact a lot of that shit that the rest of society and the media wants you to do if pretty stupid. Life isn’t about doing what everybody else wants you to do, it’s about doing what you want to. If want to do all that stuff then go out and do it, but do it for yourself. If you’re worth something to yourself that’s what matters.
July 29, 2015 at 11:13 pm

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DmanRocked

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@The Psyentist 967338 wrote:

And that is one of the massive flaws in modern society, people are pressured to be financially and materialistically successful. And those that don’t have the house, wife, kids, nice car, well paying job, etc. are sometimes left feeling under-accomplished.

Don’t measure your success in life on other people’s standards, if you do you will always be living in someone’s shadow rather than in your own light.

I totally agree. I see how we are in a way pre-programmed to live life on others’ terms, when in reality happiness is measured on our own terms. I know people who have everything danyel wants, young women, money, traveling, but they are still unhappy cause they always did what society wanted them to do or what others told them to do, so they never really got to carve their own path.
July 29, 2015 at 11:14 pm

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danyel

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To one person its easy to be worth. To 50 its harder. Thats why its more important what you are worth for others then yourself. Everybody can lie to himself and think he is greatest ever. This is easy. If you like music that nobody other likes, you are wasting your life (because happiness its only real if its shared). Thats why people on concerts and festivals are winners, because they are in majority. You need to do what majority does, to have good life. Majority is always right, no matter what they do.

Who you think is more worth. Someone who has 200 likes on picture (cute girls) or somebody who has 1. Offcourse first. This person knows he is winner and has more from life, because of his look. Girls simply won and they know it, because they have majority behind them and can therefor do whatever they want.

I can take anymore pictures from young people on boats, doing party on beaches and knowing girls are collecting cocks there for their old days to talk about youth how they enjoyed it with various different men. This is what makes life worth and they are right to do it. Make all the dirty stuff. I simply lost compare to them and can never be on their level again.
August 12, 2015 at 6:23 am

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DmanRocked

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200 likes isn’t worth shit if they’re shitty ass friends or fuck you over. life isn’t all about fucking and being young. sometimes its just about enjoying and being happy with what you have.

“There are ten principal non-virtuous actions we should avoid: three actions of the body, four of speech, and three of mind. The three non-virtuous bodily actions are killing, stealing, and sexual misconduct; the four non-virtuous verbal actions are lying, divisive speech, hurtful speech, and idle chatter; and the three non-virtuous mental actions are covetousness, malice, and holding wrong views.” – Introduction to Buddhism (Gesge Kelsang Gyatso)

Think about what non-virtuous actions you have committed and think about how your karma may have been affected.
February 17, 2016 at 4:30 am

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MikkishLeprechaun

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Same here man

Luckily there are pockets of civilization (Nevada, Amsterdam) where you can buy sex with a pretty young woman.
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