Looking for a girl to date around Cumbria, I’m 25/M Hey ladies I'm fresh to Cumbria from London moved here to work anyway looking for someone to chat too maybe meet its been a lonely two years, I love the weed pick shrooms occasionally basically love life to the full come say hi kik is rondalgyalshuka
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Love this girl, but… Without getting too detailed, here's a little background on my girlfriend and I.
We started dating a few years ago, when I was 17 and she was 16. She was the first really cute girl I'd ever been with and I'd never done anything more than making out before her and neither had she. So we both lost our virginity a few months in, things were going great. She seemed pretty sexual and curious for the first 6 months or so, because all of it was new to her. We didn't have sex that often because we didn't have anywhere private to do it, but when we got a chance we took it.
After the excitement wore down, she stopped being as interested in sex. Her libido has never been that high, and I have always been the kind of guy who needs to masturbate once a day or I feel all pent up and have a lot of tension. It got to where we were doing it about once ever 1-2 weeks, which isn't that much considering we saw each other at least 3-4 days each week. I know it wasn't me, because I didn't put any pressure on her (she never complained of that) and I always offered to please her however she wanted and made sure what I was doing was really good for her. When we did have sex she would generally say it was really good and orgasmed well over half the times we did it.
We broke up for about 6 months when I went to college (well, she dumped me because she got tired of not seeing me more than every other week). She had sex with another guy a few days after dumping me, and had a short thing with him but that was it. I made out with a couple girls over that time, but nothing sexual. We ended up getting back together this past summer.
In general, our relationship is pretty healthy. There are some problems but nothing really as big or problematic for me as the sex thing. She doesn't really see it as a problem because I am available for her to have sex with whenever she wants, so her needs are always met. I tell her that I'm horny all the time and she generally says its not her responsibility to please me, and that she'll do it if she feels like it (which is rare). Typically, we will have sex about every 4th time or 5th time we are together, although I attempt to initiate it as often as possible, generally once a day I'll start trying to make out with her and feel her up a bit to see if she bites. She typically doesn't catch on, or says she's too tired, or quickly is no longer in the mood if ANYTHING disrupts the foreplay. She has high stress levels and is the kind of person who is always on edge, so I've tried destressing her as much as possible. I give her massages when i sense she is tense, and continually suggest she start some form of exercise or yoga or anything really. How do I lower her stress levels when she seems so resistant to change?
Sex to her is also not about pleasing me, or if it is, it seems like an afterthought. Even if she knows I'm horny, if she isn't horny herself, there is usually nothing I can do. She will occasionally give me hand jobs, but almost never gives blow jobs (two full blow jobs in a 3 year period, although occasionally she'll do it for about 10 seconds as foreplay if i beg her). Furthermore, she is grossed out by cum and has never let it touch her, meaning i've never cum anywhere on or in her. The blow jobs she gave me she finished me with her hand and always makes me cum on my chest or in a condom. She says it makes her want to gag. I'm not sure if she sees pleasing a man as a submissive action that would make her feel inferior (she has a lot of feminist views in general) or if she just doesn't care all that much. I just don't want to go through my early adulthood basically missing out on a great sex life. At the same time, I do love this girl. She was my first real girlfriend, we get along great most of the time, and when we don't it often has to do with me being all tense and pent up from my advances being rejected or not having busted in a couple days.
I don't want to be the asshole who uses bad sex as a reason to break up with someone, and I don't want it to come to that, but I don't know what to do. Maybe I can get some ladies' opinions on this as well? What should I do?
It's not even that I need her to have sex with me every single day, but I just can't handle being rejected 70+% of the time and never having my needs recognized.12
I feel so unwanted. This issue has been bothering me forever and I need to hear somebody else's point of view. I am 18 years old and I have been with my girlfriend since September 2010. I love her so much and we get along beautifully however there is one thing that bothers me. We have been together for 5 years and I just can't help but feel that she does not feel a sexual attraction towards me. At first I just thought it was trust that I needed to gain but as the years went by its impossible to ignore it. I have brought up my feeling about it and she says that she wants to have sex too but her answer is always "soon", I've been hearing this excuse for about 2 years now. She claims that she is just very fearful of getting pregnant and that is understandable but if yo
u love somebody a lot wouldn't it be hard to not feel a sexual attraction towards them ? For example her father was not fond of her having a bf at first but she risked staying with me because she loves me right ? So wouldn't that same love kick in and let her risk having sex with me ? It depresses me so much and I love this woman so much that I wouldn't dare go seek sex somewhere else , especially since I am a virgin. Although she says its because of her fear of pregnancy I can't shake the feeling that she is simply not sexually attracted to me. I looked up a few articles in sexual deprivation and its effects and I showed her these articles and told her how sad it made me feel.
I really thought things were gonna change , I thought she understood how it was effecting me , but there was no change at all. I can't shake the feeling that something is wrong with me. And when I say no sex I mean NOTHING sexual. I have seen her breasts and that is all , we often mess around in my bed but when I try to make sexual advances she pulls my hands off.
It makes me more depressed because I hear my friends talking about all of their sexual experiences with multiple females that they just kick to the curb afterwards and its so hard to believe that its easier for them to have sex with random girls , and I can't have sex with my own girlfriend of five years. I would just really like to hear somebody's opinion on what is going on here , I know I wrote quite a bit but I've been keeping this to myself all these years and I need answers, help?
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Jungfrau (23), männlich, sucht Ja richtig gesehen, ich dachte ich schreib eeinfach mal auf deutsch, vielleicht finden sich hier ja ein paar Mädels zum Treffen, die auch in Deutschland wohnen.
Zuallererst schauen wir einmal was Mr. Textgenerator über mich zu sagen hat:
"Ich bin etwas eigensinnig und ehrlich."
Ich bin der Meinung das Ehrlichkeit einer der wichtigsten Punkte überhaupt ist. Selbst wenn man nur eine Affäre hat, mit eben jener Frau / Mann sollte man ehrlich umgehen. Auch wenn eine Äffäre für viele Menschen moralisch nicht vertretbar ist, ist dies ein Punkt den ich nie brechen werde. In einer Beziehung wäre dies, wenn man es ohne das Wissen des Partners macht, ein klassisches K.O. Argument. Wenn ich eine Person nicht mehr Liebe, dann muss man darüber reden - und wenn es nicht anders geht die Beziehung beenden. Wenn der Sex nicht mehr das ist was er einmal war, dann muss man darüber reden.
Ende der Geschichte.
"Ich mache bei neuen Kontakten selten den ersten Schritt.
Ein wenig schüchtern zu sein, muss nicht schlimm sein, denn die stillen Wasser sind bekanntlich am tiefsten.
Trotz meiner anfänglichen Zurückhaltung kann man mit mir gut Pferde stehlen."
Wenig Erfahrung, das ist bei Männern für Frauen ziemlich unattraktiv - aber was soll ich machen? Niemals Sex haben? JungFRAUEN haben es in der Geschichte der Menschheit geschafft ziemlich prominente Vertreter hervorzubringen, aber hat jemals einer etwas von einem JungMANN gehört? Ich leider Gottes noch nicht. Diese Seite bietet mir die Möglichkeit die Menschen im Eva Kostüm anzusprechen.
"Ich bin noch jung und knackig! Und wie! Wenn ich mich beschreiben sollte, würde ich sagen, ich bin gertenschlank."
Manche Frauen stehen auf Männer mit drei Tage Bärten oder einem Six Pack Oberkörper, aber wenn ich sage das ich schlanke Frauen attraktiv finde, wollen sie mir gleich die Augen auskratzen. Das ist jedoch keine Voraussetzung. Keine Angst. Ich finde den nackten Körper einer jeden Frau anziehend. Ich selbst bin auch verdammt schlank. Dies ist ein Segen und zugleich ein Fluch, ich kann wirklich soviel Essen wie ich will und setze einfach keine Masse an. Das ist für 90% der Frauen warscheinlich der Inhalt ihrer feuchtesten Träume, macht mich jedoch zu einem Strohalm im Wind. Nach Brusthaar oder einem Bart, abgesehen von dem an meinem Kinn, kann man lange suchen. Zum Glück ist dies relativ beliebt bei der Krone der Schöpfung.
"Ich beginne gerade, die Erotik für mich neu zu entdecken."
Die Frauen und ich.
Ich und die Frauen.
Bisher wollte es nicht sein wollen.
Das mag daran liegen das ich wohl ein kleiner Nerd bin. Und die Frauenwelt da draußen überzogene Ansprüche und Erwartungen hat. Total unverständlich für den Großteil der Menschheit: Feiern ist nicht mein Ding. Damit bin ich wohl ein Exot in meiner Generation, allerdings habe ich einfach keinen Bock in einen Saal zu rennen in dem lauter RTL Zuschauer zu Atzenmusik am herumpogen sind. Das sind persönliche Präferenzen und nur die Richtige wird mich davon überzeugen können es noch einmal mit ihr auszuprobieren.
Dabei halte ich meine Einstellung für ziemlich: Pro Frau.
Denn ich bin für die Gleichberechtigung. Das ich bei der schönsten Nebensache der Welt Spaß haben werde, steht für mich ausser Frage. Nur die guten Frauen mal wieder, sie sind nicht so leicht zufriedenzustellen. Aber das ist mein Ziel! Irgendwo muss ich ja meinen Horizont erweitern.
27M LF Friends The title pretty much says it all, though I am looking for female friends: preferably somewhere around my age and preferably not a bot or pay smammer - unless you're a bot or pay spammer who can hold a conversation of course.
Also, by friends, I really do mean friends. If you're into cybersex and all, that would certainly be an added bonus, but for now, I'm mostly looking for conversation.
Above all else, try to be nice! :)
SEX FIRST TIME My pictures below.
Viewed photos and write.
Why with you, I should do it?
I'll do it with the most interesting person.
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