Hi there, kind of convenient that the first person to see your thread happens to have a girlfriend who used to be a dominatrix lol. No shit too, is true.
Firstly welcome to Party Vibe, hope you enjoy your time here. You seem to have already grasped this but it’s very important that she’s comfortable with the idea of dominating you. If she isn’t getting off on it, and doesn’t even necessarily have to be a sexual thrill for her, then this will show in her actions and you won’t enjoy it as much as you can either.
You’ve done the hard part by introducing the idea, this tells us that at least she isn’t going to freak out at such a request. I’d say start off small, little things like her on top during ‘regular’ sex. Try various positions that put her in power, at this point you don’t necessarily have to even tell her what you’re building towards, although honesty is the best policy IMO, but I’ll leave that down to you. You can use this time to gauge her reactions, does she seem to enjoy having you beneath her, or being in command? If she seems uneasy at this stage them that would signify to me she isn’t naturally dominant; meaning you’re probably asking too much with your strap on fantasy. If she prefers missionary and doggystyle, or any other position(s) that gives you control, then she’s probably submissive, like yourself.
