Remember, young females tend to spend a lot more effort in preening and grooming. If you end up looking attractive at the end of it (and attraction is relative, tastes can vary with mood) then it can be daunting to “be in the spotlight”.
Models and similar role models often end up lonelier because too much of anything can be daunting. It’s very noticeable how couples tend to have similar levels of beauty/attraction.
Then again, ending up looking a fool is no barrier to some people. Live performers have to go under the spotlight – and tend to be more jealous of their privacy. Actually it’s a different ball game when you are in the public eye.
It’s a different ball game when you play hard n fast with the law too. Remember that. Cops know more about coercion and reading expression than you would imagine.I’m not saying all cops are bad people. It’s more of a case that, because they have to deal with people who are feeling violent and angry, they get better at the game of using force. They call it “necessary force.” Reading fleeting expressions – “empathy” – can be learned and taught. Even done to a momentary “look”, not a stare.
The cops get very upset when you use “necessary force” on them though. 😉
Just remember the 11th commandment, as used by many people;- “Though shalt not get caught doing any of the above or you are in BIG trouble.” Honesty is the ONLY policy. That doesn’t mean you have to tell people everything, but telling lies and deceits is a sure fired loser. Lying to yourself is also a terrible thing, as is living a lie.
