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  • @The Psyientist 505005 wrote:

    Bottom line is direct physical aggression towards the cunt that deserves it or risk jeopardizing a bit more of my mental health probably resulting in the long run in me hurting an undeserving victim.

    And on the underlying psychological side, boxing is a pretty good release. Your being encouraged and praised to punch the shit out of someone then shake hands at the end of it!

    I would avoid a physical confrontation where possible. You’re only opening up the possibility of being dragged into a world of trouble (be it with this bloke, his mates, or the police).

    @Savvydravvy 506501 wrote:

    Can your mate not just one on one fight this guy? The only reason you should be dragging yourself into a situation like that is because the chavvy cokehead gangster sounds like he needs a good kicking!…which isnt really a good enough reason to risk it.

    Agreed that it should be a 1 on 1 but the little prick has a couple of minions he hides behind and if my mate went alone it would be a 3 on 1. I’m thinkin my role should I decide to get involved would be that off referee, just keep the 2 Muppets at bay while my mate pastes him. Fucked up that I keep getting all my buttons pushed but not retaliating, this results in all my anger being pent up just beneath the surface. I’ve told my doc I frequently have violent even murderous fantasies but coz I’ve not acted on them and have self regulated for nearly a decade with these feelings I’m viewed as ok. Seems they won’t listen and I need to prove these thoughts?! Holding back for now but when I blow might as well be a premeditated attack on a useless twat than on some poor undeserving blighter who got in my way on the wrong day.

    @Savvydravvy 506503 wrote:

    And on the underlying psychological side, boxing is a pretty good release. Your being encouraged and praised to punch the shit out of someone then shake hands at the end of it!

    Agreed, boxing is a great way of channeling the agresssion man, I say go for it. It’ll always come in handy too – 1 of the few types of news stories I like to hear of are the ones where some robbing little pikey cunt has broken into some old fella’s house and it turns out the old guy’s an ex-boxing champ or an ex-SAS man and the thieving scumfuck gets a battering they didn’t bargain for! Once you learn how to throw the punches properly, you never forget man.

    @Savvydravvy 506503 wrote:

    And on the underlying psychological side, boxing is a pretty good release. Your being encouraged and praised to punch the shit out of someone then shake hands at the end of it!

    I have considered getting involved in such sports. Think I would struggle with the discipline though, once I start I tend to go full hilt until my opponent is no more or I’m physically exhausted. This is the reason I generally go out of my way to avoid fights. I have an on button but no off switch (or at least I haven’t found it yet).

    God I must look like a total bloody nutter, but I don’t care. I feel better for just writing these things down and expressing them.

    @MC G-Tek 506530 wrote:

    Agreed, boxing is a great way of channeling the agresssion man, I say go for it. It’ll always come in handy too – 1 of the few types of news stories I like to hear of are the ones where some robbing little pikey cunt has broken into some old fella’s house and it turns out the old guy’s an ex-boxing champ or an ex-SAS man and the thieving scumfuck gets a battering they didn’t bargain for! Once you learn how to throw the punches properly, you never forget man.

    Dude you’re confusing the news with Liam Neeson again lol

    i’ll beat you all up

    @thelog 506539 wrote:

    i’ll beat you all up

    Whatever loggy, I think any time you have spare is spent shoveling ketamine up your nose not fighting with us hoodlums.

    And I’d love to see that as the sister series to bum fights.
    Ket Fights

    @thelog 506539 wrote:

    i’ll beat you all up

    COME AT ME BREH!!!

    @The Psyientist 506563 wrote:

    And I’d love to see that as the sister series to bum fights.
    Ket Fights

    Hahahaha, I wanna see that man ‘K-fights’, live from some crack den!

    @MC G-Tek 506670 wrote:

    Hahahaha, I wanna see that man ‘K-fights’, live from some crack den!

    There was some guys at a squat party both k’d up to fuck, one of them lost his Ralf Loren jumper and was asking this other dude if he’d seen it. The other guy just started shouting out at the top of his voice “RALF? RALF?” whilst pretending to look about. :laugh_at: I think they tried to fight after, but failed. I thought it was pretty funny tbh (the guy joking about not the fight), guess people who like Ralf Loren don’t agree.

    @The Psyientist 506531 wrote:

    God I must look like a total bloody nutter, but I don’t care. I feel better for just writing these things down and expressing them.

    I think this is a much healthier option (talking about it and expressing your feelings and getting feedback) than the original plan – esp if you do go through with it – as this could be used in evidence against you…

    anger is just an emotion like any other – negative emotions are just as valid as positive ones – and we need to experinece them as well as express them – the difficulty is our behaviour in how we express our emotions – if you’ve not had good role models – or you’ve been denied a way in expressing negative emotions –

    its bloody hard to know how to do it in any other way but violence – but this dont stand up in court
    we have to be responsible for our actions and yes some people are cunts but is it worth fucking our own lives up for it?

    best thing I’d suggest for you is to keep on doing what you are – express yourself – seek support and release or seek professional help

    one difficulty with this is there arnt many therapy services that are commissioned to offer anger therapy persay – but might be worth checking it out if it is becoming problematic?

    as it is usually an expression of underlying difficulties – my sis been referred to anger managment on a few occasions – once after she kicked her own front door (reinforced glass) door down= ambulance – police etc, plastic surgery offered dur to the huge piece of glass in her leg…

    she didnt go for it and esp when she’s been drinking she can become a right pain in the arse (ask her husband whos teeth shes knocked out……)

    hense why I suggest sorting it out

    @Tank Girl 506903 wrote:

    hense why I suggest sorting it out

    I’m trying. Problem is the ‘help’ doesn’t seem as enthusiastic as me about finding a solution. I’ve managed this long by myself so why not for another 10years? Unfortunately that is the story right across the entire care industry, those in control of the money are reluctant to share it. I spent nearly 8 years in the care sector (performing various staff roles) and I know how the system works and how fucked up it is. It’s this depressing reality coupled with the abuse of my last employer that made me leave the industry, at least for now.

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