Dating a girl with a boyfriend, perfect but not so perfect Sadly this is one of the stories of my life, happened to me several times always with same outcome... I wish it weren't the case as I grow kinda attached to the girl because I get with them in hopes they'll be with me.
So anyway, I'm 22 dating a 26 year old chick who's with a "sweet guy" that wants to marry her but the intimacy isn't there. We've been having regular sexual encounters and often for 4 months now. She says she loves me and wants me to be her boyfriend but the age thing really kills her and the guy and her just bought a house together (they bought it right before meeting me, and moved in after a month of dating me).
So she daily calls me and texts me how much she loves me and how difficult it is to keep it a secret and we stop talking after she gets off of work and parks her car in front of her house.
I feel I'm being used mainly for sex and emotional support. We click way better than she does with the guy and she says it's no contest with who'd she pick if she were single, but the thing holding her back is the history and the promise she has from the guy of marrying her. He really wants to marry her and settle down, and the guy is loaded with money. Me, not so much, just a bright future hopefully.
We've tried breaking it off several times, only to get back with each other a day or two later. She'll cry upon breaking it off and swears she hasn't had sex with him all this time, and I can feel that she hasn't when down there..
But today she posted a photo of him (just him, making a face) on her instagram that really ticked me off especially when she spilled how much she misses me and is coming over tomorrow.
Should I just try to detach myself emotionally and continue this while looking for another girl or try to win her over still? In terms of matching emotionally and personality wise, we're at a 95/100, just the age (place in life, settling down etc) and money thing (she says it's not money, but would miss the perks) is the issue. Not to fuck around but people that know her are like wtf when they compare her bf to me, I modeled and the dude is just w/e... I'm humble about my appearances but this relationship just drove me over the top and I admit it to myself at this point, don't mean to be a douche.
Sorry for the long read. Thank you for reading this.
Edit: Fucked up part was when I was growing up I was nerdy and was always the nice guy and used to get upset when the girls always wanted the douches just to fuck. Now I'm the douche and know what it's like on the other end, difference is my nice guy background makes me want to make her into a gf..
Help in the Bed So recently my wife and I decided to get more adventurous in bed. We are a younger married couple and she had never been a very sexual person. We bought her first vibrator to see how we would like to use toys in bed.
While I was at work she tried it out and said she didn't really feel anything. She then said it's this way some times when we have intercourse. She said there are times it feels really good, times it hurts and times she doesn't really feel anything. Of course it hit my ego more than it probably should have but now I come here for some advice.
How can I make it good for her every time? Has anyone else had this experience?
How much sex is casual sex? I'm asking this because in psychology I learned that casual sex is good for relationships. Well how much sex like for example in a month is casual sex? And what is casual sex?
DTs part II Hey dudes and dudettes.
Have just had another week of DTs. This time from the benzos. Since giving up binge drinking (I still have the odd beer) due to being an alcholic (I actually can't drink to excess now as I wake up every time with severe muscle cramps, I have leaned a bit more heavily than I should have on benzos (primarily Etizolam).
I didn't think it was a problem but I had a weeks A/L this week just gone and though I would let them run out (Did my last one the previous saturday to this weekend).
BIG MISTAKE. You don't think that they have you. I was expecting insomnia due to not taking them but was not expecting DTs. They are not as sever as alcohol DTs but are still highly unpleasant nonetheless. Tachicardia, sweating, hallucinations delierium feverishness etc. The problem is that unlike alcohol, DTs from benzos can last AGES. I finally had to cave in and ordered some lower MG ones Thursday on a special delivery and am only taking minimum amounts to keep the DTs away and to get some sleep.
A whole week of Annual leave wasted (except I guess I have learned an important lesson).
If you are taking benzos nightly (bearing in mind I have rarely done them recreationally and have just used them to get to sleep) be very careful. Especially if you notice the dosage creeping up.
I am now tailing them down as is suggested as cold turkey can be dangerous (several days of hear rate topping 150bpm while resting is not healthy for your heart.
I you find you are doing these daily, especially if your dosage has slowly increased I suggest buying enough supply to tail down. Dropping the Mg that you are taking over a period of time is recommended. Also stash some up in places as If you do find that you run out it only takes about 24 hours for the onset on DTs to start.
Be careful people.12
US : Legalised cannabis sale in Seattle Interesting article here - the packaging and labelling are near identical to that of research chemicals sold in Europe. (I didn't realise Washington and Seattle were in the same sort of area, for some reason thought they were on different sides of the USA)
Why It's Worth Paying More for Legal Pot | Slog
Everything you want to know about legal pot in Washington | The Evergreen | Seattle Times
I dream of Cocaine Since I have been off all drugs for 5 months I have had recurring dreams - Being in bed pulling open my bedside cabinet and doing fat lines of white powder i only imagine it's coke or some speedy RC, while doing this i can feel the effects of the drug in my dream and get paranoid about being caught of my nut while in my bedroom, then my thoughts go from that to ''What the fuck am i doing, I have to go to work in an hour'' I break a sweat and wake myself up. Normally after I wake up I feel fine, and not like I would want to take drugs if i didn't want to, Do you think this is addiction? Or because when I go away to to I work around 7 months everyday for a year, so I don't get any down time to take drugs and have fun until my three month holiday?
Doing MDMA alone for the first time (Skype group chat?) Tomorrow or overmorrow I plan on doing my first ever roll - unfortunately alone. I have asked all the friends I am comfortable with if the wanna join me, but nothing.
It's tested, and dosage is going to be in the 60-80 range.
I was initially planning on doing it at a musical festival, but I would like to do it in a controlled environment first so I know what to expect. I've done my fair share of LSD which is much more unpredictable, but I still would like to be in a safe "allowed to act like a fool" environment first.
This is quite a boring small town I live in so rave clubs and clubs in general are sparse and more for the alcohol interested people.
What interesting things can be done during a roll besides listening to music and touching stuff. I suppose socializing with other people is not going to be relevant for me this time, but if some of you want to join me in a group skype chat please do just let's agree on a date and time GMT.
Dihydrocodeine withdrawal to anyone whos interested the best drug for dhc withdrawal is LOPERAMIDE HYDROCHLORIDE TABLETS 2MG it stops all the aches and restlessness,i wish i knew about this drug years ago,it really does work
Annix Mix For Sunbeatz [SOUNDCLOUD]https://soundcloud.com/sunbeatzibiza/annix-mix-for-sunbeatz[/SOUNDCLOUD] SunBeatz, the world’s premier Drum & Bass holiday in Ibiza returns to the party island for the fifth year in a row. Featuring an all star line up of A-list DJs and MC’s, Sunbeatz takes over Ibiza again on Sept 14 - 21 2014.Launched in 2010, Sunbeatz has firmly established itself as an essential part of the the Drum & Bass calendar and a focal point of the Ibiza scene. Renown for their hugely popular Goin Ape at the Zoo events, Boat Parties and club nights at some of the island’s biggest clubs like Sankeys and Gatecrasher. They are celebrating their 5th year anniversary with the Sunbeatz
Summer Mix Series. Each week in the run up to the event they will give away an exclusive mix from one of the acts on the line up at this years event.
Kicking off the Sunbeatz Summer Mix Series is an exclusive mix from Annix, one of the
UK’s hottest duos in Drum & Bass. They’ve have had releases on some of the scenes most respected labels, Playaz, Undiluted, Innerground & Radius and been supported by the likes of DJ Hype, Kmag, Drum & Bass Arena. Their new EP ‘Past and Future’ is released on Playaz later this month.
Sunbeatz is proud to present this exclusive 30 minute mix from Annix, available for free
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Illegal Drugs and Anxiety I just wanna say this ain't a Rickroll link before anyone thinks i'm gonna do em over again lol. This is actually serious shit! :wink:
I've been getting some weird anxiety feelings lately, I'm actually coming to the conclusion it's caused by rug abuse specially cocaine.
It's not anything major and it usually goes away after a little while. I do find though it usually comes on after being on one for a prolonged period and it can be a bit of a worry especially if you don't know what it is.
Anyway i thought i'd share it with everyone just in case anyone on here is experiencing the same sort of feelings!
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